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I'm so jealous of this girl and i don't know what to do.?
01-21-2013, 08:08 PM
Post: #1
I'm so jealous of this girl and i don't know what to do.?
so there's this girl at my school. and we never really have talked in person before but i see her in the halls all the time. also recently she had a tumblr and we followed each other and i asked her some questions in anon. i've had a tumblr for the longest time and my followers don't really send me questions and i feel like non of them want to ask me questions or talk to me, and with her when she made it she started getting tons of questions and she only had her tumblr for a really short time because i think her parents made her take it down or something but even that i was jealous about....the fact that she got more questions on tumblr than i did.
but besides that she's a very sweet girl and she's very religious and so am i but she seems to have everything in line. she seems to have everything so perfect. she's gorgeous and it seems like everything she does and everything she says is right and i feel that when i say or do something its always wrong because i'm always comparing myself to her. sometimes i go on her twitter (i don't mean to sound like a creeper or anything) and just look at her pictures and just point out all my flaws and i scroll down and everyone just seems to favorite her tweets and im not lying to you when they say to her constantly DAY AND NIGHT that she's gorgeous and that she's so pretty and that they wished they were her. and she's always like.. "thanks but i'm not." "thanks love, but im not." and im just like ARE YOU SERIOUS?? have you looked in a mirror?? you're drop dead gorgeous. she's also a cheerleader and now she posted some videos on keek of her singing and she has a very pretty voice. i don't mean to sound conceded but i have a voice as well.. haha well i can sing. but anyways.. now im thinking that she has a better voice than me. on facebook she gets more likes on her pictures and gets tons of compliments and i get compliments as well but not as much as she does. i don't want to sound like an attention seeker or anything but she's so perfect. i hate how im having a great day and then i see that she posted a picture and im just like -_____- it just ruins my day. my whole life. sometimes i just want to kill myself. i know that it's just high school and that it'll all go away and stuff but right now is right now and it's not going away any sooner.... also i know that you should never envy anyone or anything that anyone has because it's really bad but how can i not with her being the prettiest girl ever that has everything and with me that has never even had a boyfriend before... :'(
help me someone before i do something i regret...!
thanks xoxox

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01-21-2013, 08:16 PM
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There are always going to be people who seem to have it all. They don't. Everybody in the world has problems, and just because this girl seems to have everything you want doesn't mean she has everything SHE wants.

Stop stalking her on Twitter. Yes, you DO sound like a creeper. You're dissatisfied with your own life so you're trying to absorb hers.

That doesn't work. It simply does not work. Instead of obsessing on HER life and what SHE can do, get to work on your OWN life. Instead of "doing something you'll regret" -- oh, spare me the trauma drama, honey, if you did kill yourself you wouldn't be around to regret it -- do something that you will NEVER regret.

Do your homework! Volunteer at a retirement home or an animal shelter. Get a paper route. Stop playing soap opera victim and do something to change your situation.

It's CONCEITED, by the way. Look up "conceit" and "concede." Not at all the same thing.

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