How do I get this girl back as a friend?

[D-Jeter]

So we used to be really good friends. Then I got mad at her and started to tweet about her. Im now kicking myself over doing that and its killing me not being her friend. So i said im sorry today how do I go from here.



Me: Would you be willing to tell me why you're mad at me?


Her: I'm mad at you. That's a waste of my time. You simply annoy me and you have talked about me on twitter, so I have no respect for you. I give people 2 strikes. You've used yours and got cut off.


Me: Well I'm truly sorry for everything


Her: Thanks!


Me: I really didnt mean any of it and you really didnt do anything that made me mad just alot of family probs kinda stressed me out


Her: I undertstand, but you should be old enough know how not to take your anger out on other people. If not there are pills, doctors, and diagnosis for that


Me: Okay my bad. I know it was a very immature thing to do and i'm extremely ashamed at the way I handled the situation


Her: Lovely, I glad you understand.


Me: And I'm usually not a dick like that. It was just one of those things that seemed like the right thing to do at the time.


Her: Okay


Me: So I guess you're rule is 2 strikes but do you think you could make an exception just this one time?


Her: I'm not looking to be friends. I don't like anyone so don't take it personal. I will tolerate you.


Me: So you're saying we will never be friends again?


Her: Most likely


Me:

[fluffman]

I would say, I know I fucked up, I sinsirely appologize and regret my actions. I want to have you as my friend agian and hope you can accept my apology. If she says no say, Well I tried, The only person your really hurting now is yourself. I forgive you for being stubborn and myself for being a dick. If she holds a grudge don't worry about it. Find better friends.

[InsaneLeader773]

You stabbed her in the back, she can take as much time as she likes to forgive you and if you can't handle that then you don't really want to be her friend. You merely want her to forgive you and be kind to you so you don't have to feel so bad about yourself for betraying her and talking smack about her.

Don't try to blame what you did on stress or family problems. You were upset with her for some reason and you did a very hurtful, mean thing to her. You knew it was wrong and you did it anyway. People make mistakes, you get to make them too. The only thing you can do is tell her that you're sorry for doing such a rotten thing to her, you knew it was wrong and you really, really wish you hadn't done that to her. Let her know that she never deserved to be treated like that and you are a jerk for doing that to her. Also acknowledge that you know that just because you regret what you did and want to fix the damage you have done to your friendship with her, she isn't obligated to forgive you. She is the only one who can decide whether or not to forgive you or accept you as a friend and you need to let her take her time and make that decision at her own pace.

You did something really nasty to her, you have no right to demand or expect anything from her. I hope you'll remember this and do something different next time you are upset with one of your friends.