Did I push this too far?

[music fan]

Please help advice is needed im 26 shes 36 she was my ex of 2 years we broke up 6 months ago and it was over me not being able to go away on holiday with her and she didnt believe me when I said I couldnt afford it and told me and told me I didnt care about her.
In october when it was my birthday she wanted to meet to talk I told her ok but work messed me around which she knew about then arranged a 2nd time and I couldnt make that because I was ill so she told me Im an idiot and we had a slanging match trading insults by text
A month later I wrote her and her parents a letter saying sorry for how everything turned out and that I was sorry things didnt work out with my ex as i saw a long future with her as we talked about moving in and having kids etc - my ex texted me saying her dad died the night before she got the letters (he had prostate cancer for a long long time)
I couldnt go to the funeral as we werent talking and I was working but I could do nothing but think of her and hope she was ok
I re-activated my facebook back on tonight to find her with a new pic of a new hair do flirting with exes saying she would send them topless shots but I could tell reading her comments though she was flirting she was saying sad things too like why she bothered getting a new do etc
A couple of days ago I decided to text her to see how she was coping with things and she texted back saying things we hard at the moment but she appreciated me "checking in" and that she "appreciated it" to use her words and ended her text with "hope your ok x" I then decided today to text her to ask her if she is finding things tough if she wants to go to a christmas market with me if she is free and I said to cover myself I appreciate she wont be short offers but if she fancied it she could offload on me while at the christmas market.

Was that 2nd text too much?

thanks

[Teacup]

no, you're fine.

[Lucy S]

Sounds like you two needed to break up. She wants more attention than you can give. Let her find someone else.

[~SweetDimples~]

No. It wasn't

[Elita]

U wanted to txt her n u txted her!!! do not regret!!!
Be yourself..Be honest with ur feelings..
Is not bad that u txted her for 2nd time.
Bt r u sure u r interested for a woman saying she would send topless shots etc??? I mean, im just 24, n if the guy im dating now saw such comments on my fb page, he wouldnt like it he wouldnt take me for something serious n he wouldnt see his future with me i guess.Bt maybe she was just joking i guess. Good luck

[Sparky]

No, you did good. Sounds like you are being a friend. Sometimes being with someone you know well is comforting.

[abbeycoolit]

Whoa!Either you have the worst luck in the world or you just do not like this gal and are making all types of excuses. While I counted three or four occasions when you failed to make a date with her,the worst was not going to the funeral of her father.Your reason that you guys were not talking and you were working was so lame. This was a gal you had dated for two years and had contacted when you learned of her father's death.If she responded with the news of his death,how can you claim that you guys were not talking then?Besides ,is that not the right time and the right way to show her that you cared by being there to console her at her moment of grief ;do you think she would have asked you to leave the funeral?I would ask you to honestly figure out what you want with this gal and if you love and want her back,if you do love her,then simply go to her,apologize for every thing,tell her how you feel about her and then ask her what she thinks about a reconciliation.Then go with the flow.