I need middle school advice!!?

[Emy]

Hi, I'm a pretty average middle school girl; 7th grade. Anyway, girls here at my school are obsessing and talking about serious making out, grinding, going to slutty parties. I'm not sure if they are just saying stuff or not. I'm rarely invited to parties. I'm not a weirdo/nerd though, or considered "fat": 5"2 and 95 lbs. But I am a random outcast. At my school I'm considered nice and pretty, but I have no friends there, but I do make a lot of friends outside of school.
I see it all over the internet: facebook, twitter, that stuff, even on yahoo answers about how middleschoolers are doing all that serious making out and grinding at parties? I'm not naive or totally clueless if you know that type. I've known what things like this mean for a while if you know what I mean.
I'm crushing on a guy and I'd like have my first kiss too [[soon preferably. I'm dying over here]]. But I think what I'm really asking is do normal middle school kids do that kinda stuff? Not like I'd have a chance to even if I wanted to... But.. should I be doing that stuff?!
thanks

[distroyer]

7th grade??!!!!
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Don't do those things... My Generation ALWAYS talk about being disappointed in those kinds of things, and yes, maybe I'm just being a sore loser by saying "You'll regret it" and stuff like that. But the reason people say things like that is because they really regret it. Don't believe me? Then go ahead. Do what you want. But you will regret it down the road. I'm not trying to be mean. I'm just saying.

[Have]

Yes middle school kids r..I'm 13 I can't say it's a bad thing if u did it cuz I have so I have no room to judge. I recommend not doing it at ur age u will get a rep as a slut..kissing is fine but please wait till ur older high school at least to do anymore then tht.

[Michelle]

A first kiss isn't a bad thing to want, and grinding isn't exactly bad as much as distasteful. When I was your age, I thought all of the "intense making out" and whatever was so cool, and I thought it was what I should be doing. Looking back though, it's all dumb. You should enjoy your youth and not try to get in over your head or anything. It's all up to you, that's just my opinion. Just don't do anything you think you'll regret. The worst thing is disappointing yourself.

[kate]

hunny when i was i year 7 i was talking about my Nintendo ds games. look, your in year 7. even if u did do that sort of stuff, no one would care, everyone would just call u a 12 year old slu**.
you want ur first kiss to be with someone u really like and that ur in a relationship with. dont do the same mistake i did, i got forced into my first kissed and it was wasted on a guy i thought i liked but ended up being a jerk! i hope u think twice about doing what very one else does because its just gross and its obviously not you!