How to be comfortable with myself?

[Snow red]

well first of you should know that I'm a freshman in high school

Ok I feel so insecure about myself all the time
I see pretty girls everywhere and I just put myself Down a lot like "why can't I have pale skin like her" or "why can't my lips be like here" idk I'm just really insecure about everything and I ALWAYS care about what people think of me like one time I was trying to be cute so I wore my beanie in school and this random girl was like "take off yo beanie" and I randomly kept on walking and I felt so insecure idk. My friend get called "a big nose" and she does t seem to care i mean idk how she feels but it makes me feel down onmyself how i can let people control me. I don't have many friends. I have LIKe 1 friend basically I mean I have aquaitences that's all. And I'm not talaneted I try to be I signed up for ballet and guitar when I was younger but I didn't LEAR A SINGLE FRAKING THING and I just don't pay attention idk I just copy what the teacher is doing so ya I can't play the guitar or dance and my parents make me feel bad about how i wasted their money and it hurts my feelings i tried my best idk even to this day my dad would joke how i wasted his money and i would shrug it off u knwo but i know it hurts me and i know its true so i feel worse idk. And I'm also not that smart. Because in school everyone understand everything and I just can't seem to make myself focus idk I just copy of people sometimes and I feel stupid because I learn nothing. And I feel like I have no "personality" idk I think I'm very boring because I seem to entertain nobody and I can't hold a proper conversation for more than 2 minuets and I try to "be myself" on twittwr& on tumblr and make some internt friends because idk lol I tried to be a "sass account"but I get extreme social anxiety and I do nothing and I have no friends I'm such a loser I get social anxiety online ok I suck
I think it's the way I feel about myself I don't feel beautiful to be myself

[Seth]

just be yourself
post a picture so we can see how you look


any other questions email me at
ariesismyname@gmail.com

[olderwiser100a]

its a difficult thing to do, loving yourself before learning to love others. your insecurities are simply that. you are not alone in feeling insecure, most of us do on a daily basis. and most of us do not have a large group of friends, or acquaintances, to support us. part of parenting is understanding that children are not always talented and that spending money to make them talented, say with a guitar or dance lessons, does not always work. your parents didn't waste that money, you in fact did learn some things even if you don't know you did. just because you think you are boring does not mean others do as well. we tend to be very critical about ourselves, whilst others accept us for who we are. you can improve. not easy, but you can. practice having "conversations" in the mirror. talk to yourself, pretending to talk to someone else. use social media to enhance your confidence. you can be whomever you want on the internet, be it tumblr, twitter, facebook, whatever. find someone you can email to talk about what is going on in your life. use those opportunities to improve your self esteem. you are fine, you will be fine. and you are beautiful. just as you are.