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I'm so confused??
01-23-2013, 03:28 AM
Post: #1
I'm so confused??
Look before you read this please don't bash on me, I am just confused. Alright it all started a year and a half ago we were both 19 my now fiancé and I got engaged after 5 months, it was out of the blue I never thought he would propose especially i wasn't thinking of rushing anything. So rewind those whole 5 months were great he was so sweet and caring would pay for everything text me all the time be a great boyfriend. We lived together for 3 months in an apartment then moved in with his parents. He was always a cigarette smoker but more an more he started smoking pot and then spice. I've supported him in everything he does, he didn't want me hanging out with certain friends and going to my work, etc. in may of this year he ended up getting kicked out of his house (i stayed with a friend so did he) and he asked for money since his parents took his, I felt guilty so I gave him money, he spent that money on alcohol and trying to get into a club. I still gave in and stayed with him we both went back to his parents and one day he got mad at me over a twitter account on my phone so he tried breaking my phone, I tried leaving that night but he tried to flatten my tires and he wouldn't let me call anyone, 2 days after that I left for 2 months to live with family. A month into me moving he begged me to come back. So I did a month later and he made so many promises he'd change and what not and now I've been back for 4 months and nothing has changed, he's gotten angrier and more addicted to smoking. He's supposed to be training for baseball and I try to help him but he still smokes. He gets mad on a daily basis, he will go to bed pissed off and wake up telling me I'm annoying and to get away from him. The other day he left me at home while he went to his parents and to bat for baseball (we usually go everywhere together). That day I spent the whole day cleaning and didn't eat lunch, while he went out got lunch hung out with his parents and then trained. I don't understand

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01-23-2013, 03:36 AM
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There's nothing confusing about this - he's a drug addict and YOU are the enabler.
Make a firm plan on how and when, then get this guy out of your life..

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