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Please guys! If you would help me?
01-23-2013, 04:04 AM
Post: #1
Please guys! If you would help me?
Last two times we met at church, I gave him signs that I'm interested and he seemed so happy. However, I have seen some pics that made me feel so confused. He had pics with being so close with the hot girls. Those girls also are closed with the guys in his group. I have no reason to be angry about he hangs out with friends, but the pics made me wonder about his true feelings and my trust.

I always have the feeling that he stares at me at church. I know at church many people are around, so I don't often look at him because I know that it could be someone else that he looks at. However, whenever I give him attention, he seems so happy and excited and of course when I don't, his face becomes grumpy. We are not best friends or friends so there's no reason for him to act like that toward me. He's not shy and always have guys and girls who are friends. But to me, he just could not talk normally like he does with other girls. Back then with an event and the message I sent to clear things between us, he blocked me and ignored me at church for 2 months. I thought everything ended and let go. He has not added me again since then. Yet, in May he showed signs like he's interested again until now. I don't want to be a fool to play games with him. I want to have a talk about everything, but it's not easy to talk when I go home right after church. I don't stay unless there's an event. My mom is often around so I don't have enough courage. Every time I want to talk, things just block us.

I just ignored him on Sunday because I felt so confused and did not want to fall into guys' tricks. I don't know if he sincerely likes me or just likes my attention. The ways he acted since the moment I known him (about 2 years) have not changed and he always showed these signs to make me believe that he has feelings for me. It's just that he has not said anything yet. What should I believe? If next week, he acts grumpy, like I'm not exist because I ignored him on Sunday...Does that mean anything?

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01-23-2013, 04:12 AM
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I skimmed read it.

Just ask him to lunch
Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let years of perfect relationship before marriage (if you want you can always be engaged and married after years has passed). You can always accept the marriage ring and just marry when you have a few years of solid peace and love engagement/relationship. Make sure only settle for your soul mate with peace and keep in mind there are many soul mates. Arguing is normal but is it good? no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. You can even attend after marriage. Make sure no medicines.


On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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