How do I stop being a loner?

[Nicole]

I really just would prefer to be by myself and write books--I like to write. It's all I think about during school and I go home after school to do it, too. I have friends, though, three of them. They're amazing friends but I don't hang out with them after school or go to their houses or do anything with them that's not IN school. It's getting troublesome for me because I can see them on twitter and facebook having such a close relationship and making all kinds of plans and just laughing with each other. Even when I'm in school I can tell that they'd rather be with each other than me, even though they still consider me a friend. It's hard because it makes me feel lonely, like I have no one, but the only one really to blame is myself. I can always just...hang out with them, but I would rather write in my book, and when I do hang out with them two of them are a couple so I always feel like the third wheel, and even when it's not those two they're paying less attention to me than everyone else. All I'm saying is I feel lonely, and I want to be with my friends more so I can create a nice friendship with them, so how do I stop being a loner?? I don't want to stop being by myself since I don't like company that much but at the same time I hate feeling alone. >_<
Yeah, but that's the problem I never want to.

[Question]

Just hang out once in awhile (when you feel like it).

[Tiffany]

Sometimes if you want change to occur or want certain times like not feeling lonely it calls for sacrifices like reaching out to others and initiating things with people like going to the movies or having a study group idk. if you are able to have a social life make one for yourself. i am not telling you to change who you but if you want certain times to change or happen it not going to happen unless you initiate things

[Henk V]

It is very good to see that your inner voice gives you the advice to produce something that might improve society, this is trying to write a good book. And it is clear that you take this seriously and this makes you very conscientiously, which is a thing to admire in your personality.
And writing is often a lonely business. It is known that good writers often chase their loved ones away in full concentration when writing a book. However you should try to take breaks, after a chapter or after a book is finished and then show your loved ones how much you care about them.
Some chapters in life however are very long but it is indeed never a good thing to be a complete loner. Everybody needs human contact, so you should take these breaks and tell friends and family about this vocation and the time you need for it : they surely will understand.