Why isn't she texting back? (FIVE STARS - BEST ANSWER)?

[Chrome]

My ex and I talk a lot, (she is from a relationship two years ago).
Recently she had a medical problem and was sent home from school.
She missed today as well.

We haven't texted in a while even though we talk most days. Today I texted her when I got back and she hasn't responded. She's using twitter which she presumably goes to from her phone.

I don't understand it, I don't know whether she hates me or likes me.
Her twitter account blocked me, when I eventually asked her about it she said twitter sometimes randomly blocks people - I don't know whether she is telling the truth or not.

But we get on well, we talk with eachother and she tells me things that are important to her. I still love her, but I've kept this a secret. I don't think she really loves me though.

Even worse, she really loves her dogs and one of them died from cancer a year ago, she's still hurt by it and now her other dog has a tumour too. She was already suicidal and now things are even worse. I wondered if this was why she wasn't talking, but she's using twitter.

One more thing I know from what she posted on twitter, she's started her "woman time." I am assuming that means her period. I don't really know how a period affects a girl, is this maybe why she isn't texting back?

Here are my questions, please no trolling.
1. Why isn't she texting back?
2. How does she feel about me?
3. What should I do?
I do not feel she was getting too much attention from me. I don't constantly text her (this is the first time in six months), even when we were talking over twitter I never "smothered her".

[Opal]

well if she has had medical issues lately she might just be sleeping to feel better. I have the same issue with the person i like right now.. he sleeps all the time and never texts back.. i guess its just somethin you either gotta get used to or its gunna upset you 24/7 /:

[Ok...]

Oh no sweetie, its 10 pts, not five stars.

And this was too long to read. You have to give it to us in about 2 short paragraphs or less... that shows you want a real answer, and value our time... Good luck!

[Mike]

You just said she blocked you on twitter.. how are you seeing that shes tweeting. Twitter doesn't randomly block people. And give her some space man you guys aren't going out she doesnt need to text you back right away. Take it slow again shes going through rough stuff.

[Britty]

Give her space. She's going through a lot. Also, if it is her "woman time", she's probably not in the greatest mood and is just wanting to be left alone. It could just be that time of the month when women just don't want to deal with some people.
Or, maybe it could be you. If she feels smothered by you she will try to push away. I doubt twitter would just randomly block people, honestly. If it was accidental she would have fixed it. I believe you should give her a day or two to just be by herself. Let her miss you and if she wants to talk to you she will.
I don't know how she feels about you, I'm not her.

[Mi]

1. Okay so like you told me..she might have some problems.. you know theres alot of people in this world and we're different.. There is a type of people who want a space when they are hurt...so i assume she needs some space... don't worry about that, it will get better.. But let her know that you're here for her anytime she needs it.

2. How does she feel about you... is hard to say i would have to know a little bit more.. but oh well not bad .. if she felt bad about you she wouldn't talk to you everyday

3. You should let her know that she's not alone.. you care about her.. . and you're here for her if she needs you.. but also give her space as well.

Good luck, i hope it gets sorted out!


4. Ps; being on period is very annoying.. well it depends on woman to woman...some women have big problems, it causes so much pain..some women have to stay at home for that but at same time some women have no pain in stomach.. it really depends.. you can't say in general.. it's different from woman to woman. When a woman is on period she is usually very annoyed. So she get's annoyed by every single thing..

[Ridda]

Give her some time to get back to the now, she's going through a lot. Give it a week and if she's still not responding, tell her how you really feel about her and ask her how she feels about you. Ask her out to dinner or something. Don't worry, I'm sure it's nothing that bad, it takes time to form a perfect relationship.

[jonathan_kelly2001]

1. Why isn't she texting back?
Maybe she has a different phone number. Maybe she is resting

2. How does she feel about me?
No one is going to know that answer

3. What should I do?
She is your ex. It doesn't matter if you still want her. If she doesn't want to be your girlfriend then you need to move on . . .

[kate]

Ok, I think the girl your talking about is confused. She doesn't know weither she has feelings for you or not. I think you should be there for her and act like a true friend. Talk to her next time you see her and tell her you will always be there for her. Send her one text saying all this and then wait. Next time you see her, act friendly and open. BUT....wait until the drama in her life has subsided before you make your move.
She might be feeling a little tender at the moment as a result of the drama so try and be understanding. And don't worry about it, all girls have their mood swings
All the best and good luck!
PS. I will murder you if you go into the "time of the month" subject. NEVER ask a girl if they are on it or you will receive a back han. but yes girls do tend to get a bit moody

[Textanova]

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stamp… do you know any good tattoo artists?"

How could she not laugh at that? Hey, how are you, what's up. That stuff doesn't work on girls who are worth it. That's because everyone else is texting them that.

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