My family and friends can't be trusted, who can I trust in this world?

[Tiffany]

I come from a dysfunctional family where I got criticised and put down all the time, until I no longer trust them anymore.
As for my friends, I can't be myself around them because they always misunderstood me.
Whenever I say something, they start misunderstanding my words and then start ignoring me.


If my family and friends can't be trusted, who can I trust in this world?

[bunnyONE]

Perhaps the first thing you need to think about, is the kind of person you are, are you honest and open? Do you/can you support your beliefs and are you able to COMMUNICATE in a manner wherein people really do UNDERSTAND what it is you're trying to say?

Very possible it is you who are sending the wrong message. Perhaps some counseling would reveal much about you to YOU - AND further? Help you to communicate better. If this is NOT the case whatsoever, then it seems you have people in your life currently you need to shed and make new friends. However, I can't believe that a PART of your problem is not how you communicate to others in general. Think about it.

Grace

[Allie Cullen]

Then all you have is yourself.

I know how you feel.

Trust yourself. Then make new friends who are like you, who do understand you .

[ImBlack]

JESUS...SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME IF I SHOULD HAVE A FAKE MARRIAGE TO GET OUT OF MY PARENTS HOUSE http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...323AANuJHu

[Good Life by Love]

Shakespeare " Love all, trust few, do wrong to none"

for later:Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let years of perfect relationship before marriage (if you want you can always be engaged and married after years has passed). You can always accept the marriage ring and just marry when you have a few years of solid peace and love engagement/relationship. Make sure only settle for your soul mate with peace and keep in mind there are many soul mates. Arguing is normal but is it good? no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. You can even attend after marriage. Make sure no medicines.

On another note you seem to be a very nice person, so I like to add that what ever person you want a serious relationship with, take your time (years) and really really really see if this is the person you will spend your whole life with. If you can even better never get married and just enjoy your life with nothing serious, make sure the other party knows your intentions. I also like to add though, in marriage it is a different kinda love, a very valuable kinda love. Always do whats best for everyone like what you did when you asked this question,

Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. Make sure no medicine

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