How to remind her it was our plan first?

[ABC]

basically me and my best friend love this comedian and always say how me and her are going to see him live when he brings out a tour. then i go on twitter which i never use and see my best friend and her friend (i don't talk to her or like her) talking about him and my best friend said 'i need to see him live like right now' and her friend said 'ooh can we go please?? :$' and then my best friend said 'YES WE MUST!'

Like what? now i'm just like right cool i don't matter any more then... and i have a suspicion that the next few months he'll bring out a tour and she'll end up going with all her other friends or something

i want to bring him up and say what that girl said in a non idiot way and see what she says to me. i remember making a picture of all the people we need to see live and he was on it and it just makes me feel so sh*t when i see things like that. what should i do?

ps if she was to invite her other friend she would have to invite the whole group of them and i would be left out like the whole night...

[deaf_tommy_henley]

Tell her you plan to go with or without her. If she wants to be with other people, you can to. But don't miss out just because you don't like this other friend of hers. You don't NEED her.

[ferochira]

You gotta learn to accept others, even those you don't like, if you want to get invitation to join, you really don't have to relate to them directly throughout the evening, just kind of nicely put up with them, without making anyone feel uncomfortable.
Best you don't let others or the friend even know there's someone you don't like in the crowd and most often those you don't like have the same feeling about you, often there seems to be a mental connection on that level, ppl feel it without reason.
If she knows you don't like someone in a certain bunch she hangs with, then she probably feels it's a discomfort for you or all, and the majority does most always will. So learn to put up a front for the good of your own sake or you'll get left out.
Yeah, bring up the conversation and see what happens, if she admits too what you've already discovered, then just say, oh, mind if i tag along them ?, if she brings up the fact there's someone you don't like coming, just tell her, " it's not like some big hate issue, she's ok and all, but if it weren't for you, i just wouldn't hang with her or get close a lot. " then tell her, when a person doesn't like another usually there's a weird connection/vibe that makes the other feel the same, so we're probably on the same level, but it's not like i can't accept being in her company occasionally.
Even if this invitation passes, you've put the idea in her head, that your willing to accept all her friends ... for future reference.