How to step it up with this girl?

[Christian]

I added her and started talking to her on Facebook after I was told by her friend that she thought I was cute. We talked on there for like 4 days, she talked to me about her trip to Candlestick Park, her day and there was slight flirting involved. I sorta confronted her about what her friend told me and she just said "perhaps ". On the fourth day she asked if I had a twitter and I just went for it and told her, "Nah but I know you have a phone # why don't you let me have it?". She did and we texted the next day from 8 to 12 and she told me "maybe I'll see you around tomorrow at school". We still text but its been 3 weeks since I started talking to her would it be a good time to ask her if she wanted to hang out??

1. I never really seen her around at school (we're in winter break right now) and I haven't talked to her other than hello's in the hallway so would it be weird if I asked her to hang out?..

2. Another way I was also thinking about was inviting her to a party my friend is throwing, talking to her there and eventually asking her if she wants to hang out, would that be a good idea??

3. Good idea, yes or no?: Start a conversation with her and steer it towards if she has any plans and she"ll most likely ask me the same and I'll say something like "I'm trying to hang out with a cute girl you know any?? "

[Georgia Hastings]

Just ask her out, to be honest I think she is interested in you aswell

do mine please

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[Andrey]

To be honest, I stopped reading after the first paragraph. When a girl's friend approaches you and says that her friend thinks shes cute: that's a green light to ask her out. WTF are you doing waiting this long. Don't be a chode and ask her out you dumbass.

[Shaun Dizzle]

Just ask her how her break/holiday is going.

Then try and get her to go hang out with you. Shouldnt be that hard if shes interested. Maybe start with a cup of coffee or something small since it seems like you havent really hung outside of school much.

Then if that goes well at the end tell her you need a cute date for the party and she fits the description. Dont do that stupid winky face thing you said at the end. I dont think any of my girlfriends would ever go for that haha but whatever floats your boat

[Anna]

You should just go for it and ask her, you seem confident and she seems to be interested. Since you've been talking for 3 weeks, I think now is a pretty good time to start asking that

[Lily Wade]

number 2! that is just perfect! after the party ends or she leaves you can ask her out to another hangout just you guys..make sure you use phrases like "i'll pick you up at 6 or something like i'll see you at 4." Good luck.

[Just the Truth]

Ok so go with idea 3 but lose the corny comment at the end. Start a convo, ask what her plans are like over break, she may make up something because she wants to seem cool and busy, which if she does that then just say something like darn, I was going to see if you wanted to go to a movie or something with me. Make sure you have something planned to do for the first date. Its going to be a little awkward at first so having something planned will make it less. Don't worry, it will be weird for both of you, your obviously young so don't put too much pressure on yourself. You need to step it up a bit because the whole texting stuff only does well for a bit, once you add in hanging out then things spice up again.

[Hilary R]

Come up with something more concrete then Hey let's hang out> such as
I know you love xyz we should do that together this weekend what time can we? or something ...
I'm so sick of dudes not being able to make plans tell time and just being flaky head in the cloud types.

[Malay Man]

Personally, I think 3 weeks is more than enough to ask her to hang out xD Also, she seems to be interested, and if she says no, it's most likely because she likes you, but doesn't want to date you. Nonetheless, she likes you xD