My friend got upset with me today... what do i do?

[The Seeker]

Today I texted my friend in the morning asking her a question. It was something along the lines of " do you think me seeing a different surgeon will be safe if its a different surgeon from my first surgery". And then bam she flys off the handle. She got upset that i sent her the same message in twitter and on her cel. I sent it to the twitter account AFTER the text cause i remember her saying she prefers to not text. So I she told me " things happen for a reason. I needed a surgery and I never got it but I didnt message my friend multiple times at 9:30 in the morning" and then she mentioned " stop throwing it at me". I dont know what i did to deserve this. I know i have come to her for advice before many times so I assume that it must have worn on her? Even with taht being said I think she could have handled it differently. I told her i was sorry I affected her negatively as that was not my intention and she was still nasty about it. So I feel I have lost a friend .. but I dont know.What do you think? I feel very angry hurt and frustrated that a simple question got that type of response from her.
Oh I forgot to mention, AFTER she told me to calm down and that I need to CHILL was her words, I told her that I had a right to be upset cause the doc who i wanted to do my surgery bailed.. Just thought i would add that i dont know how relevant it might be here.

[RobertAndizzy]

Report abuse to that person jasmine its trolling and not being helpful to anyone

[Nut]

She's probably just having a bad day. Give her some time to calm down, like a few days or so. After letting her calm down, just go and talk to her. Explain everything that happened and your feelings about it. It's always best to talk to someone to sort out your problems. Try your best to keep your attitude calm and understanding.

[Bootz]

When you see her in person, one on one, cry.
She'll feel bad instantly. Maybe she was just stressed about something

[madison]

Please, don't hang with her anymore. She doesn't seem to be a friend to you anymore. This truly is a traumatizing event and it has happened to many others (similar in the nature). Even I have been through this, when I lost a best friend and a former friend who became an enemy three months ago.

Take some time to get over her; please don't rush it. Feeling angry, hurt, and frustrated is totally normal in this worst-case scenario (the worst way to lose a friend). Where do you know this friend? School? Is there anybody else who is currently friends with you? If there isn't, you should join a sports club in your community. Those are always fun. You can make new friends and have fun there too, while taking her off your mind. If there is, how about you develop a stronger friendship with multiple people? That way, you have another best friend if you lose another.

If you want to see my problem, even though it's already been solved, here you go: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...532AAHlZ9Z