Heartbroken, what to do?

[Cassie]

This is really long I apologize.
Me and this guy dated for about 8 months. We never planned on dating and definitely not falling in love. We have been through a lot together the good and the bad. At first I started bossing him around, and treating him not so good because I was scared of the intense feelings I was starting to feel. But I realized I was wrong for treating him poorly because I could tell I was pushing him away. He would cry nonstop over me and call a million times & i never cared. But then I changed and gave him my all. We actually were even promised. Then he would get mad at everything, and be jealous over everything. So then he brokeup with me for retweeted an ex's thing on twitter. Lame right? well then I begged...cried...did everything. Then he gave me another chance. Then he brokeup with me AGAIN. Then this week he gave me a chance to see if he thought things could work out. He said he would give me till Friday. Everything was going amazing... we were starting to connect again and laugh. Then randomely yesterday I offered him a ride home and he said no he wanted to ride the bus. And I insisted I take him home, then when he got in the car he was being an asshole then said he was done with me forever and that he doesnt care about me. He was secretly hiding texting other girls and such but I did get jealous & he said I was up his ass too much...But he once did the same thing so it doesnt make sense? I asked why he wanted to give up...he Said because I favorited my ex's thing on twitter. He was likeing his girlfriends photos and shit & texting other girls...plus he told me he didnt get jealous over me anymore... So then he was being mean and said "hurry up take me home" so I told him to get out. And he did. Then he got on twitter and said "when a bitch fakes you out so you miss your bus". Yes i'm in highschool btw but i'm about to graduate. But then i texted him last night telling him i loved him and alllll this stuff.. and tried calling. All he texted was "your dead to me. you ditched me. I'm going to block your number. Be a big girl and get over me chick." How could someone who said they loved me do this? And not care? and text other woman? I want him back even after hes treated me like shit. I miss what we were. And i know me and him both have been stressed lately but I love him so much. Theres a lot of info. I didnt type but only cause theres so much to it.How do I get him to atleast want to be my friend? Or even get back together? Ive never felt so broken in my LIFE. I feel like im falling apart...everything reminds me of him and makes me cry. I cant even go to school...Im not sucicidal or anything but, im definitly depressed lately.

[Mary]

well if he's treated you like **** , that means that he doesn't love you , this is not love ! sorry :/ ,just get over your ex , and live your life , he's not even deserve you

[purringbranch421]

I think you should back off, I don't think you can ever be friends with this person, the only thing that I can see for you to do is, is be friendly when you see or run into him somewhere, speack, say hello how ya doing, if the conversation goes anywhere else just talk and move on. Stop obsessing over this. If you don't he is not going to ever act any different. Besides 8 mo. is not that long to be into someone. Give someone else a chance. and treat them well as you began to treat this person. You may find you really like someone else.

[Tanisha]

Sounds like you have a classic case of infatuation. Love is kind. Faithful and gentle. It doesn't hurt. And it sounds like he doesn't really appreciate you. I suggest you busy yourself with something else. Something you like. Even with people you like. Absence sometimes makes the heart grow fonder. Once he sees that his actions don't effect you he either straighten up and fly right with you or allow you to move on. Personally I think you should move on and I believe you'll feel the same after a while. Best wishes.

[Sophia]

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