My best friend cut me out of her life what do I do?

[Dequon]

My best friend (who is a girl. I'm a guy.) and I were the best of friends. From the day we met, we connected very well and quickly became bff's. We talked everyday often until 2, 3 A.M. We were very affectionate towards each other saying how much we loved each other (as friends. Though she did mention us hooking up. We never did.) She often told me how amazing I was and how much I make her smile and make her day. Typical stuff a best friend wants to hear. I truly loved and care about her. I'd be there for her for anything and put her happiness above my own. A little while ago, I noticed she was different. Distant. Less cheerful (she was usually ecstatic to talk to me). I brought it up but she brushed it off. Then the very next day is when she decided to cut me completely out of her life. She's ignored my messages and unfollowed me in Twitter and defriended me on facebook. It's been about 5 weeks since it happened, and it hurts every single day. The first few days after it happened, I was just like a robot. Went through the motions of daily living but I wasn't really there. I was totally out of it. It doesn't hurt as much as it did then, but it still torments me every single day. The fact that I don't know why she did it is the main reason why I can't move on. She was so sweet and caring this just isn't like her.. A little before the incident, she brought up a boy and how she never liked anyone so quickly. He played her, there was another girl he's going with but he told her he wouldn't mind her company just not right now. She cried a lot over him rejecting her but still likes him ( she did when we were still friends). Maybe she cut me off because there was an attraction between us and she doesnt want It to affect her chances with this guy? Some guy Is no excuse to betray a best friend though...So what should I do? I probably sound like a fool by saying this, but I want her back. Our friendship was very important to me. Should I confront her or forget her?

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Ignore her and find a new friend. Nothing drives a female more crazy than initiating a split from someone and then having that friend ignore her. I know. I'm female.

[Joep]

Send her a text message with why she is doing like that. Say her that you can help her!

[unknown friend]

It sounds like she likes you as more then a friend and because you don't feel the same she decided to back off so she won't get hurt.

What I would suggest is that you send her a hand written letter, it's more personal then a text or email and in it tell her how you feel and that you understand that her feelings have changed toward you. Then let her know that you will always be there for her if she ever wants or needs to get in touch with you. That way your putting the ball in her court. Then back off and let her decide what she wants to do.

Things like this happen in life all the time between friends. My best friend of over 30 years did that and it hurt but that is how I handled it. I then moved on with my life and she knows that I will always be there for her if she ever feels the need to re-establish our friendship or anything else.

People come into and out of our lives when we need it. She felt the need to go out of your life but may feel the need to have you back in her life at another time. She knows you well enough to know how much you mean to her.

Good Luck!

[Laboni]

Let her go & don't worry about it. If u r made each other forever, she will be back.