My spouse changed, he's not the man I married, should we divorce?

[unnua]

I promised to love him but he was a different person then. Now he's changed and I don't love him anymore. If he was still the man I married I would still love him. I feel he betrayed our marriage first by turning into this different person.

Is this a good enough reason to divorce? (We don't have kids.)

If you want to know exactly how he changed:
-He is no longer laid back and happy, instead he's very serious
-His ambition has taken over and he works so much, rarely having time to spend on social connections
-He abandoned the interests we shared, like music and poetry
-He likes risk-taking, such as playing the stock market, driving too fast, gambling

[VanessaG]

Sounds like he is growing apart from you. Divorce may be an option, but inside he is still the same man you fell in love with.

[AsaY]

http://www.danoah.com/2012/10/16-ways-i-...riage.html


Please read the above article and figure out your problems. It might be of little help to you. And also try making your hubby read it. Best wishes. And always REMEMBER, everything happens for a good reason. Believe in the best. God bless you.

[l8tr g8tr]

You need to work on your marriage and changes in your common interests...you both have changed. Find some common ground.

[Shorty]

if you don't love him any more then yes, get a divorce