my childhood best friend doesnt want to be friends anymore?!?

[voicelessfaucet229]

My best friend and I have been friends since elementary school.. we're almost 20 now. We used to be inseparable until I moved 3hrs away from my home town. But I visit home every other weekend and she came and stayed occasionally. Once while she was visiting we put on super red lipstick and took funny pictures. Well I put one on facebook, because I thought it was cute. I recieved a text from her calling me a spiteful b***h and to take the pic down. I told her I was in the middle of driving on the thru way and I would do it when I wasn't driving. She continued to flip out saying I'm fake and I hate myself, my bf is the only person I have and when he leaves me I'll have nothing and I'm pathetic and she doesn't want to be my friend she said all of this in a very mean way. We have had fights before so I just responded with okay I'm glad you told me how you feel. Thinking it would blow over. Well its been two weeks of not talking. She has posted mean things about me on her MySpace/Twitter.

I'm confused as to why she would act like that over a picture? I think she may be mad because i moved to be with my bf after he got back from Afghanistan. Also ill ne starting college soon and she doesn't do much but play xbox live. Does she feel like I'm leaving her behind? Honestly Idk if I want to be friends with someone who flips out over little things like that and thencontinues to embarrass me. Let me know what you think.

[Zander]

Fake your own death.

[:)]

I'm so sorry to hear that... ask her kindly if there is anything going wrong at uni or home or with her boyfriend?!

[phhh....]

wow, if that pic is cute, why is she howling? if she is acting like this, go ask her why, be bold. she dosent deserve to be your friend.

[KissKiss]

I'm very sorry to hear about your friend. I think you should go talk to her. Next time you're home, go to hers, sit her down and talk it through. You've been friends for far too long to let one thing destroy it.

She has said very nasty tings but i can only think that there's something she's not telling you. Talk, and don't give up unless you're certain that she hasn't got anything else on her mind and she's just being nasty.

From what i read about the difference in you're lives, she might be jealous. Or it might be that she misses you or doesn't like the fact that you live so far away and have a separate life with you bf. She might be hurting and the way she's handling it is distancing herself away from you, thinking that she'll feel better about herself or something.

There are so many things that could be the matter but you won't find out unless you speak to her face-to-face about it.

Good luck, I hope things get better for you and that this helped a little.

[kelgal07]

seriously, forget about her and move on. honestly, its really immature of her to act like that over a picture. dump her and find better friends. xD

[DOLLii3]

im sorry that this happened.
you could um.... well you could ask your mum for advice or you could ask a mutual friend and try to ask him/her to ask ur friend why she is acting this way

i hope i helped u
I WISH U THE BEST OF LUCK!! <3
i know u dnt deserve this, no one does

[MMMM]

Well, I think she is acting like that out of jealousy (and she maybe unaware of that).Perhaps she was hurt that you two parted and feels somewhat betrayed that you have a boyfriend that is now the focus of your affection, otherwise I can't see why she would say those terrible things about you. She may find hard to cope with the fact that you moved on to another level (living with you bf) and probably has problems accepting she has to grow up (your description about her makes me think of a 14 years old teen, not of somebody almost 20) and make some changes in her life as well..My advice is that, if you still wanna be friends, let her know that you have a place in your heart and in your life for her, but to do so, she has to accept the fact that you have to go on with your life and so has she, since you're not teens anymore.

[MMMM]

Wow....well she sounds really mean. Even though you have great memories, sometimes people turn out weird like that. It may be time to move on. Yeah, I don't think you should be friends with someone who embarrasses you. Act like it doesn't bother you. Delete her as a friend on Facebook and MySpace, stop following her on Twitter. she just sounds annoying, it doesn't matter that much anyway. I'm so sorry your friendship had to end like this!