Ex bf dilemma. What does he want?

[Christina]

My ex bf dumped me almost 7 months ago. The reason for this was because he wanted to have sex, whereas (I am a virgin) I wanted to wait until I was ready. Anyway, to cut the story short - after the breakup, I deleted him on fb and cut all contact with him. He then started insulting me and writing rude things about me (including my body, how naïve I was etc) on twitter and his blog. I decided to ignore the whole thing and didn't respond to him at all.

However, for the past two weeks now he's been writing insulting things about me, including blaming me for the breakup and calling me manipulative and a liar, as I didn't want to have sex with him. I'm starting to worry that he will start spreading rumours about me to our mutual friends. What should I do? Why does he continue this insulting behaviour ? Does it sound like he wants attention?

Ignoring him hasn't exactly helped him to stop this and move on. I've found someone else and I'm happy with him, but the fact that my ex keeps bringing these lies up about me frustrates me.

[unknown]

Your ex is hurt over your break-up. He is probably embarrassed and ashamed so he is trying to make you look bad. Try not to let it upset you. I know it is probably difficult. I suggest deleting/blocking him off of the social sites you share with him. Soon enough you will have forgot he even existed!

[KittyNova]

Talk to your mutual friends and ask them what they think, and if they have an idea why he's doing this. Tell them it's bothering you and maybe if they can get some answers from him (tell them not to make it obvious that youre asking)

[Beryll]

everybody of your mutual friends will laugh at him if he keeps doing this, because its childish, and people usually behave like that if they feel ashamed, so u should laugh at him too, especially if u have already moved on, just let him play his own game and smile into his face if u guys see each other.that's gonna make him more embarassed.

[Chelsea]

Send your new boyfriend to kick his ass . No im joking ! But sounds to me like, he knows that the reason he broke up with you was stupid and now this is his way of coping ( I.e) trying to convince his self that he did nothing wrong . I think you should talk to him face to face . Or write him a honestly letter. But other then that , ignore it Jun . He just want attention and if you give it to him he's gonna feel like he won . And him might spread lies to mutual friends , if they were real friends they would come to you , or won't take knowledge of the madness. Don't worry about it hun . He just jealous

[Varla]

He loves you.

[freedom fighter]

He knew he did wrong by you..and he is taking it out on you, not good..ignore him..don't allow what he says to bother you..if he is slandering you online with using your name, you can make copies of this and take it to the police and make reports and see what the police tell you to do..

[zealouspicture267]

Anyone who knows you also knows the truth about you...he's 'stepping it up' in an attermpt to get you to respond because the silence it driving him batty....if you continue to ignore him eventually he will stop because all this effort is not getting him what he wants.

[Katey]

Wow. What a douche.

I wouldn't worry too much about it, you obviously put him in his place and he is embarassed. I know that when I see people on facebook writing bad things about others... I always think a little less of the author, not the person written about.

I am sure people know he is an idiot.