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Now that I'm 26 and still single will I never get married and have kids?
01-30-2013, 09:23 PM
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Now that I'm 26 and still single will I never get married and have kids?
Ive been waiting a long time to meet someone special... Now I'm meeting special ones but they are already taken...
Is it just not going to happen for me
so im a single 26 year old woman...do most couples aged 26 stay together for at least 10 years?

ALL the decent, nice looking guys my age and older are in serious relationships... at this age are they all going to stay together for the next 10 years at least?

it seems they are all off the market and i need one Sad

it's not fair... will any of them become available again in maybe 1 or 2 years? or will they wait till after they've had kids...

if i have to wait until im 35 for a good one then i'll be infertile and unattractive...

also, i want to go back to uni to study nursing... i will be 29 when i start working full time... will spending my time studying further stunt my chances of meeting someone

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01-30-2013, 09:31 PM
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I met my guy when we were both 39. Were 56 now.

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01-30-2013, 09:31 PM
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well. not much you can do. i'm on same boat.

you can wait til some have kids and divorce. lots of breakups happen.

studying is always good. you get to meet more people in school.
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01-30-2013, 09:31 PM
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get out there by meeting people. join online dating sites. go speed dating and so on

stay a virgin if you can it gives you more value
Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let years of perfect relationship before marriage (if you want you can always be engaged and married after years has passed). You can always accept the marriage ring and just marry when you have a few years of solid peace and love engagement/relationship. Make sure only settle for your soul mate with peace and keep in mind there are many soul mates. Arguing is normal but is it good? no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. You can even attend after marriage. Make sure no medicines.
Either way for later as a wife if you decide make sure to take care of him always in the love making area. I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace. He wants a feminine wife not a worker guy. If you make double what he makes he should stay home.
*Talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband.
*Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want.
*Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way.
*Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private.
*Remember your NEVER a push over, you LOVE so you give BUT if your ever taken advantage fix it asap with a calm talk in a private place with time to talk while hugging and ending it with a kiss and maybe love.
*Make sure your spouse can handle things, like if he is not good with money maybe he should handle it. I mean like saving for a 6 month rainy day and then increase that as much as you can as time goes on. Buy a house cash small to start and then bigger when you decide and ready to have a child so the child can stay in one community for their whole school life and a place to come home always during Holidays and for you to plant your plants and watch them grow and to grow old in, make sure to pay cash or go smaller if needed or just wait on the child/bigger home, peace is most important. Retirement, Vacations.
Also make sure to put a small bundle of money as a emergency fund for you

Also I see counseling working. Make sure no medicine
On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.
Love and the Good Life will come
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