I Dont Understand,What Does This Mean?

[brittbratt8894]

There was this guy that I have liked since high school.He was popular,played sports,girlfriend was too,they had many friends.Me,I was sorta the outcast.I marched to my own band.I had my own group of friends.Well we had classes together throughout the years.One day in class he wrote his number down and said for me to give it to my sister.And than he said and you can use it to if you want.


After high school and every one went there seperate ways and went off to the army,navy,college,or whatever we stay in contact via facebook.He told me that he liked me and had always liked me.And than he started sending me messages and commenting on my pictures.Than finally we exchange numbers.And we texted.Just a month ago(November)he told me that he was coming home for good after December 18th(the day he graduates from college).He wants to be fwb(friends with benefits)and I want to be in a relationship.


When I told him,he took it rough and started goin off.And than I went off and after that he told me to never talk to him again and please refrain from contacting him.And I did.But I kinda feel bad and wish I could just fix things between us because I don't like drama.Well what I don't get is,if he told me to not talk to him again than why is he still my friend on Facebook and Twitter?And what should I do?should I talk to him or leave him alone?
And after we exchanged numbers we didn't talk for like a yr and than one day his friend came to me and told me that he was talking about me and saying how much he liked me and he wanted to go on a double date and than he asked his friend or my number.I don't understand why he just couldn't come to me and ask me hisself?

[Vf]

He only wanted a piece of ass. The reason he didn't want a relationship was so he could bang other girls and not feel bad about it. Don't talk to him. You probably deserve better than that.

[Jojo]

Leave him alone.You guys obviously have different realationship ideas.It seems like this wouldn't be a good match

[little_gracey_bear]

You wanted a good relationship, HE wanted to have sex. That isn't a good combination. He might have had many friends and been popular, but that doesn't mean he was a good guy. Lots of jerks are like that, for some reason.

Don't contact him, and if you're seriously looking for a good relationship, look for a guy who can wait till marriage to have sex. That means he's committed and won't be looking to take your body and then leave you. My husband and I waited till marriage, and so far, we've never had any trouble. My mom and dad waited till marriage, and they've been happy together for 25 years, and counting.

Don't trust a guy who wants to get into your pants so soon. Leave those jerks for someone who will LOVE you for YOU and not your body. You deserve a better guy than that!

[John N]

Leave him alone.
Don't un-friend him or un-follow him.
Be happy that he was up front with his intentions.
He could have just strung you along and never intended to start or maintain a relationship.
You are better off this way.
He now knows what you are looking for and if he changes his mind about seeing you, you will also know that he was only looking for fwb. You will/should know to keep your guard up.
Good luck.

[RIcky]

I think you should leave him, because he sounds like a playa. He wants to be a friend with benefits, probably trying to use you. But doesn't want to be in a relationship so he can be 'Friends With Benefits' to other girls too. All he wants is fun.

[carmen]

leave him alone, and he's so busy talking to other chicks that he forgot to delete your friendship. just like in high school. think about it.

[rama h]

well ...its rly a bad situation but in my opinion u should stay on your decisions,,,why do u wanna back up if u didnt do any thing wrong ???!!!
and if he rly likes u he wouldnt do that ...
my advice is stay in touch with him like nothing happend and ...in the end every thing will be ok

[Cody Mills]

Will u should try to talk to him since you have liked him for a long time and if he roded to u again just cut him lose!