Why do my relationships get so sour?

[twilight]

Why do men I get in a relationship with say such very mean horrible things to me? Like things about myself that are very hurtful like fat stupid nasty bad at sex.etc I have never stooped that low with them to attack them in that way and they are the ones who cheated stole lied or did me wrong in the first place not me I'm always faithful and love with all my heart but it keeps getting broken. Why are men I am in a relationship with so very mean to me?

[sparkle]

Maybe you're choosing the wrong partners and seeing them through rose tinted glasses instead of seeing them for their good and bad parts. People always present the best sides of themselves until you get to know them a bit better. Then again, maybe you've just had some bad luck or maybe a lot of bad luck where men are concerned and you're just going to have to accept that because there is nothing else to be done, take whatever lessons you've had from your past dating experiences and know what you won't accept in future. Know you are one step closer to meeting the right person for you each time you date someone new and don't make excuses and stay with someone so you can feel needed and no longer alone. Dating isn't about filling a void.

[Custom15]

Start going for guys who are the complete opposite of who you usually date...

[Good Life by Love]

choose a different crowd of guys your pooling in.

Get fit, eat small often healthier meals. Work out. Find a hobby that deals with sweating. Think positively and always first think of love.

Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let years of perfect relationship before marriage (if you want you can always be engaged and married after years has passed). You can always accept the marriage ring and just marry when you have a few years of solid peace and love engagement/relationship. Make sure only settle for your soul mate with peace and keep in mind there are many soul mates. Arguing is normal but is it good? no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. You can even attend after marriage. Make sure no medicines.

Also now focus on your school, job and chores. Make sure to give much love to both parents, help where you can.

School= College you want to go to, major you will go for, student aid of fee waivers or even scholarships ( go to the college your thinking about and just go to the student center and schedule a consular to discuss all this. They are very helpful. You might need to revisit to check that your on track. You can even take college course now if you wanted. Make sure your high schooling is on top of it's game.

Job=find any decent job near by that works with your schedule. Maybe waitress which gets good tips and you can talk so time will go by fast. Make sure to be smart, because there are many smart guys out there trying to trick girls with money.

Chores, just do them asap.

I hope this all will help.


On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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