My Parents split up...?

[AL]

Im really sad. It was ages ago, but its all coming back to me now for some reason. My parents split up and I moved house twice and I keep breaking down. I don't wanna go to school tomorrow because ill probably break down. I don't wanna speak to anyone cuz its embarrassing...

[ArsenalFan#1]

Tell your friend or your teacher because its not embarrassing and if you don't tell, no one will know why your so upset! You will feel batter after it!

[Coach Simon]

While I appreciate that this is a serious question concerning an issue that is rightly important to you, we older types often wish we hadn't taken ourselves and most things quite so very seriously during our short teen years, because they are a period of emotional change and discovery – so much changes! We can’t avoid changing, but we CAN make decisions about which direction we wish to go in. The important things are to develop self respect and emotional self sufficiency (i.e. not relying too much on someone else for our happiness) and to work on our values and qualities such as integrity and respect for ourselves and others: absolutely everyone has things about them you don’t know about. Also ensure that you have no unnecessary fear (False Evidence Appearing Real!). We CAN decide and plan about our directions by practising in our minds the kind of person we wish and intend to be. Especially first and last thing in the day when the subconscious is most accepting of your conscious thoughts. (So avoid negative t.v., video games, etc., especially at night).

Life is full of ups and downs, isn't it. The trick is to take charge of your emotions, and not to allow yourself to get too high or too low. Some people find this easier than others.

People tend to respect those who walk tall, whatever their height, so always ensure you have a straight back, whether sitting, standing or walking. This also helps our self esteem.

Life goes in seven year cycles: infancy till seven, childhood to fourteen and adulthood around 21. Naturally people vary, and the stages merge into each other like the seasons do, but it continues to an extent: many women are not too mature until late 20s and a lot of men don’t even start to grow up until their mid thirties (I was one!).

All parents have been teenagers of course, and can be taken back to their teenage feelings with genuine interest and positivity on your part. That said, no one person can ever completely understand another (except identical twins, perhaps): we all come from slightly different places and have different experiences of and takes on life. Hence nobody can judge us with any accuracy.

Remember: adolescents’ emotions are in a state of flux and constantly changing – some more than others, obviously.

Doing things for others without asking for anything in return, such as voluntary work is very often a key here (what goes around DOES come around eventually).

[Good Life by Love]

talk to a school counselor they are free and confidential.

I like to just add because maybe I got your attention:

for your relationship:Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let years of perfect relationship before marriage (if you want you can always be engaged and married after years has passed). You can always accept the marriage ring and just marry when you have a few years of solid peace and love engagement/relationship. Make sure only settle for your soul mate with peace and keep in mind there are many soul mates. Arguing is normal but is it good? no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. You can even attend after marriage. Make sure no medicines.


On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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