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Abuseve husbanded what to do.?
02-01-2013, 12:44 PM
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Abuseve husbanded what to do.?
and I have twin boys almost one year old ..abuse start when my husband find out I was leying about some stuff I done in the pass that I felt like it won't matter if I tell him or not some stuff didint really effect my life with him knowing he was part of my life than .. Since than he got trust issues with me .. I have not done anything to make him feel that way I work full time I take care of my kids and I do my house and wifely duties without complain ..he will throw things in my face and always say I don't respect his parents and I'm a lier and a B.... And all that ... I get tired I leave the house and than he begged me to came back ... Even he tattooed my name in his body ... But lat week I was at work busy and he got creazy asking me to came home..as soon as I enter the house he dragged me and smack me in the floor phiskly abuse me I was screaming my lungs out the neighbor called the cops and than I was begging him to stop before he got arrested ..anybody in position whiny hassatid to call the cops but I didint ..I couldn't leave the house and couldn't stay he treated to kill him self if I left.. Idk what to do . I love him but I love me and my kids more ..I have no family here(out of the country) and no place to go

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02-01-2013, 12:52 PM
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02-01-2013, 12:52 PM
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How can you love a man who abuses you? How can you want to stay with a man who will do this in front of the twins....if not yet, he will. This will only teach the children that its alright to do.

Calling the police is the right thing to do. Having you name tattooed on his body was a stupid thing to do. It'd be one things to have the names of the twins tattooed because they will always be his kids. But spouses can change.....often.

Take your children and leave. You can ask an attorney about going back to your country and I don't know how that works since you'll be taking the kids away from him.

Call local women's shelters and see who have room for you and the twins. They will protect you from him while all of this is beting settled.

If you don't go back to your country, you need to take a course in English as your second language. You'll need to learn better English if you stay in this country and settle down.

Good luck to you and the children. Please don't stay in this type of relationship. I don't think you're in love with him. I think you're in love with the security of having sosmeone in your life. But his is not the right someone.
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02-01-2013, 12:52 PM
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seek couples counseling NO medicine. If they say take medicine go some where else.

BUT you should never be abuse, there is social services that will give you a safe place and get a lawyer for you for your kids and alimony.

No more kids.



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