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Is it sometimes better to withold information from your spouse? I think so, you? Why/why not?
02-02-2013, 08:24 AM
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Is it sometimes better to withold information from your spouse? I think so, you? Why/why not?
It might bite you later if you tell your spouse everything. For example, if your spouse was away visiting his parents and they're out of state, and you do something crazy like get drunk as crazy with a long hangover with your friends, and they take you home, it's best to not tell him. He can really start worrying and it might cause friction between you two, particularly if there are other things going on, like financial problems or other things. Spousal love is VERY FICKLE, and often, you're better off NOT adding fuel to the fire by telling your stupid choices. As long as you're safe and you won't do it again, ut's best to NOT tell him. What do you think? Why?
Don't tell me the youi shouldn't do such crazy things. We should NOT, but many of us do do stupid thigns which we regret later on. That's not the point. The point is, sometimes, it's best to NOT say a word about somethign to your spouse. What he doesn't know won't kill him.
Don't tell me the youi shouldn't do such crazy things. We should NOT, but many of us do do stupid thigns which we regret later on. That's not the point. The point is, sometimes, it's best to NOT say a word about somethign to your spouse. What he doesn't know won't kill him.
Don't tell me the youi shouldn't do such crazy things. We should NOT, but many of us do do stupid thigns which we regret later on. That's not the point. The point is, sometimes, it's best to NOT say a word about somethign to your spouse. What he doesn't know won't kill him.

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02-02-2013, 08:32 AM
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Don't tell, BUT get your act together and be responsible

Arguing is normal but is it good? no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. You can even attend after marriage. Make sure no medicines.

Make sure you protect your family from outside by working only and your wife is a stay at home mom. NOTE if she makes double your wage, you better stay at home instead and do the cooking cleaning and so on. If you work you can do all the home manly things. If plumber or whatever needs to go to the house make sure you see them the whole time. Make sure you have a hospital or office with only females. Give love to your wife always and hear her out and then you have to make the decision. Also be responsible for the family. Make love to her as much as she wants, make sure she is always satisfied as you too will be satisfied. Be attentive to the kids and your wife. Make sure you save, pay your car with cash, your house with cash and then retirement. Make sure you raise your kids right to be good adults. What every your handling there's no need to tell your family, just make sure you on the ball so you can get it back and score. Make sure you stay fit, try to be handsome even if you think it is silly or waste of time or you think you don't. Take a shower 1 to 2 times a day. Make sure you smell good. Make sure you have good breathe. Make sure you go to the restroom when she is not around for number 2 or 3. Make sure you are organized. Make sure you dress decent at all time (wear the favor t-shirt with holes under your other shirt). Make sure she knows she is appreciated and important to you and the family. If it is her or them it is always her as long as it makes sense. They can always be second, but she is first. MUST make sense. When she is not right on some things or don't remember just help with a quiet mouth. By all this your married life if you choose will be a fulfilled one.

White Knights never argue, but knights make their women proud and want them. Make sure you have everything ready. I mean like saving for a 6 month rainy day and then increase that as much as you can as time goes on. Buy a house cash small to start and then bigger when you decide and ready to have a child so the child can stay in one community for their whole school life and a place to come home always during Holidays and for you to plant your plants and watch them grow and to grow old in, make sure to pay cash or go smaller if needed or just wait on the child/bigger home, peace is most important. Your wife should always have access to cash and a good amount. If you can it is better you balance the books. Pay that car cash, used or new. Pay the vacation cash and have your retirement ready, remember to diversified in many ways not just many stocks but many ways. NOW if you want to use some credit cards because of perks then make sure to place that cash aside in the bank account so when the statement comes cash is already waiting Wink


On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you.

Love and the Good Life will come

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