I am almost 22 and I have never been on a date is this normal?

[raye]

I am 21, I have never dated anyone, I have never kissed anyone and I am still a virgin. I am only attracted to older white men(age 35-45) and I am mixed race. I have been asked out by black guys my age but I have turned down every one. I just don't see the point in dating someone I am not physically attracted to. I also do not like having friends and prefer to spend time and go out alone, I just think that having friends is too much work and too much of a hassle, plus I tend to not get along with other women at all. I have been asked to hang out with other people, but I turn the offers down because I just find them annoying. I live alone, I have never had a roommate and I don't have a facebook, instagram, twitter or any social networking. I hate having my picture taken and the thought of posting it online terrifies me. I just want to know how I can meet older white men to date, I don't know why, but I am just not attracted to anything else.

[Smileee]

If it doesn't bother you it shouldn't bother anyone else. It seems like you have it justified to yourself so is it really a big deal what other people consider 'normal'?

[Mircat]

You aren't social, you are a loner, you have no friends because you are too lazy, you are a virgin, you've never kissed anyone, you don't date, you don't get along well with other women (sad state of affairs if that older man has daughters), never had a roommate, you are basically antisocial. That being said, exactly what do you think you are going to do with that older guy when you get him? Better be only sex because you have no ability to socialize or communicate and don't know how to have fun in groups. All that being said, exactly why would an older guy want you? What do you have to offer a guy? Why would he want you? What about all those things would make that guy be so glad to have you on his arm but can't take you any where? Cuddling by the fire only goes so far.