What's the best way to get her attention again?

[Brendan]

Alright.. So there is this girl that I met what's coming up on two years now. We initially spoke online as recommended through a mutual friend, and had met up shortly after talking. I thought the first date went great, and to be honest I've never felt so comfortable around a girl.. we had almost everything in common, down to all my weird interests and all the stuff people imagine in their soulmates. After that I texted her some, and though she wasn't very good at timely responses we still hung out a few more times, but since she sucks at texting we eventually had a falling out.

I feel like my problem was I came on too strongly, and made my comfort around her a little too visible... so after giving up, when I would see her (which wasn't often) I'd make some small talk or wave, but never anything much. Sometimes I'd text her and get no response or just one, but her friends said she usually does that to them too.. From then until today, she still crossed my mind almost daily. Not long ago we had a small twitter conversation and I've been thinking of the best way to see if there is any flame that could be rekindled.

What do you think would be best... strolling into where she works? messaging her to just meet somewhere? idk.

[Ash]

Yeah, you came on too strongly. Continuing what you're doing is probably only going to put her off some more. As a woman, we do love attention but we want a little challenge too. If you shower her with attention in the beginning, shes going to feel as if you're too clingy or moving too quickly.

My suggestion is a classic one, but very effective. Play hard to get. Stop trying to contact her. Let her come to you. I say give it a few days without texting at all, if you don't hear anything "casually" stroll into her work, but do NOT appear as if youre there to see her at all. Act like you have a more important reason to be there. She'll likely try to make small talk, as its only natural. When she does, be brief. Act nonchalantly towards her. Then end the conversation with something like "nice seeing you. Talk to you later" (not too friendly though, as if she's just a casual friend). If she doesn't try to make contact after that, then she's probably not interested.

[Boon Keong]

Some people just dont like texting so much. So you shouldn't text her so often. Maybe she just need some space or privacy, maybe just meet up once a week? You can find out what is her horoscope to understand and analyse her personality.