Why would an ex who dumped you want to follow you on Twitter?

[Sophia]

We dated for 2 years and we were one of those passionate, trusting, and affectionate lovers. We really imagined the future together! Because of one drunken mistake caused by him, we fought a lot and went through a lot of crying together. Then one day, he said he lost feelings for me even though he acted jealous + cared about me, and "tried" to move on. He said he loved me, but wasn't "in" love with me anymore. Finally, after a long and dragging breakup (since he wanted to keep talking to me), I discovered that he was going out with my classmate whom he got a long from before. I was devastated. How could he move on so quickly? So I blocked him from Facebook and unfollowed him on Twitter. I told him "We never happened" and never spoke to him since then. After 2 and a half months of silence, he requested to follow me on Twitter. Why? He said it was awkward to talk to me and he has a new girlfriend (assuming that they're still dating), so why would he be curious about my life?

[Paula-Marie Toone]

To keep tabs on you. Since you two are not 'friends', he sounds stalkerish.

[Aniita]

He probably still has feelings for you but he just doesn't want to show it because of his new "girlfriend". He might be using his new girlfriend to make you jealous or something.

[Question Mark]

He sounded like a jerk who needs to feed attention from you, because he may hardly get it from anyone else. Yes, he's got a new girlfriend but so what? He likes you...but he doesn't want to be with you. Then he followed you again because he missed you, without thinking how "s h i t" you were treated before you two broke up.

Make an assertive decision. Think about yourself. His drunken mistake was unforgivable, and YOU should have dumped him. You are way too kind, and don't you EVER repeat the same mistake I did. He moved on so quickly without looking at your heart, now he's back just like that to track you and see if you may still be interested in case his "new gf" doesn't want him anymore.

It's not healthy. He thinks he can take you for granted because of your reaction to the break-up. "Oh, maybe she doesn't mind" shouldn't apply to you. YOU mind, and YOU deserve better. Two years is a very long time, and should never have been wasted.

[Sadeque]

Make an assertive decision. Think about yourself. His drunken mistake was unforgivable, and YOU should have dumped him. You are way too kind, and don't you EVER repeat the same mistake I did. He moved on so quickly without looking at your heart, now he's back just like that to track you and see if you may still be interested in case his "new gf" doesn't want him anymore.