10 Points For The Best Answer! I like this girl, but she's going through some issues. What to do?

[delightfulearthquake453]

I met a girl a month ago online, and we went from messaging each other on the website, to texting, and to talking on the phone a few times. I'm suppose to be calling her tonight. So she's a nice girl and what not but little did I know that she wasn't completely over her ex..((btw yes her ex is a girl, so you guys won't think its a guy that she's not over))
So yeah I think I asked her was she over any of her exes I guess, I can't remember how the conversation came about but more likely it was apart of getting to know each other and seeing where we are on dating terms. She admitted that she wasn't completely over her ex..
But wouldn't you expect someone you meet on a Dating website to be ready to talk to other people though?to get to know them so it Can lead to a relationship? Because that's what I was thinking. She probably does want to talk to other people and like other people of course but she's not over that one particular person.
She told me she like me though and she knows I feel the same way about her, but sometimes I'm not really sure if she like me like she say she does, and my reason for that is because she loves her ex.

I don't have a twitter page but I asked for her twitter name, she was hesitant about giving it to me at first but she did. so I just checked out the page and what do you know?...I didn't know this girl had feelings that bad for ex, like seriously all her tweets is about her ex girlfriend (turn off, literally) . I mean the girl seems super desperate. If I'm not mistaken I think she said her and her ex broke up about a month or so ago...*sigh*
And just to think I was practically falling for this girl myself and she is the first girl I've ever kinda liked. So I don't know what that makes me. I've always dated guys and not girls but I wanted to switch it up this time see if I can find love in a girl. But I don't pretty much like no other girl like that except her I guess, and if me and her unfortunately don't last in a relationship, then more likely I'm going to talk to guys again. I honestly can't see myself with no other girl but her.

Don't get me wrong, I don't want to just stop socializing with her just because she has a major flaw. I think she deserves a chance, just as well as me deserving a chance with her. But I don't want to put my heart into a relationship with her while she's kinda going through these emotions and stuff for her ex. She's talked to me about her ex before and said how her ex was a drama queen and how her ex act like a B . I think theyve dated for a year and it was a long distance relationship if I'm not mistaken is what she said.

Long story short....I like her and she likes me, but she loves her ex girlfriend and is not completely over her..What should I do? Shoud I be patient like I told her I would be. It's a super long story you guys but I can't get most of the story perfectly out. It's rambling but its the truth. Or should I stop talkng to her and just socialize as friends just incase her ex want to give her a second chance? even though she told me she wasn't going to giver her ex a second chance..Idk what to do..
I admit I do see her kind of differently now because of the tweets I guess.
My expression when I saw those non-stop tweets about her ex was like :O ..
shocked. What to do?
You can put answers below and you can also hit up my inbox whitetami19@yahoo.com if we could message about it in inbox. Cause yes I really need the help and advice

[Jenna H]

If i were you i would not wait around for something that may not ever happen. its completely understandable that you like someone and you dont want to just give up on them.. but its also understandable she still has feelings for an ex because she dated her for so long and they just recently broke up. shes probably trying to have someone on the rebound to help her get over her ex. if shes still posting stuff about her ex she obviously doesnt even care about your feelings.. sure she may say she was a drama queen and whatever else but im sure if her ex decided to give her another chance she would take it. theres tonssss of girls and guys out there i wouldnt wait on someone who is waiting for someone else. shes putting you on the back burner in case her ex doesnt come back and that isnt fair to you!