Girlfriend CHEATED on Me, Please help , I DONT know what to do, This is killing me?

[marcus]

My girlfriend and i have been dating for around 4 months. This girl is honestly obbsessed with me in everyway and mind. She always tells me "not to cheat on her" and we both talk and think about each other nonstop. just a few weeks ago while she was drunk, she confessed to sleeping with another guy but she was a party and really drunk and so was the other dude. She did it during when we had one of our little fights over something stupid, but it was not why she did it.

Ive seen posts on twittter about this two going back and forth saying they love each other, but she wrote that he loved him while she was drunk and at that party, he writes it all the time. when she was drunk that night and told me i told that this wasnt going to work out, its over. and she just broke down into serious tears, she calls me almost everday crying and apologizing and wondering why she did it. she explains to me that she had no control for what she did, but i dont know if i can beleive that. this girl did not have the best life growing up, loss of her parents (drugs) she has fallen in love with me and she says im her everything. she makes posts on fb and twitter saying "what have i done? ... "who am I?" ..."I wish i could go back to the way things were".. but what really upsets me is that she told me a month later

.******.I saw her before she told me and after she had done what she had done, we we went to the movies and i saw her phone and she got texts from the boy who she did it with and she has not reponded to one of them after that night*******

What do i do, Please, i need everyones advice.

Much appreciation

[Mary]

Dump her butt. Sorry but that is my advice. I seriously think that you should dump her. She cheated on you, she hurt you, why come back?

[Luke]

id dump her say no more pick up an instrument and start a band let out some angst through music none of that depressing stuff but through death metal

[Harold]

Dude they did it once they arent afriad to do it twice .. Dont be her puppet bro

[Silky Johnson]

You need to show some self respect and dump her but I can tell by your post that you have no bawls and will accept her letting another guy plow her pooter. Just think of that guy hammering that pooter that's supposed to belong to her and her loveing it because that's what happend.

[Linda]

When people are drunk, they lose their inhibitions and truth can come out.

Alcohol saved you from a lot of future trouble and heartache.

She is immature, not loyal and not ready to settle down to one partner.

Don't take it too seriously. You can't be her therapist and change her. It won't work. Someday the right one will come along.

[Love]

Regardless if she was drunk and you had a little fight, she cheated on you, and what happens if you two have another little fight is she going to go to the comfort of another mans arms like she did, as they say once a cheater always a cheater.

[KelSexyBaby]

Cheating is difficult. People do it for different reasons, but since she was drunk, she may have acted different than she wanted to - even though drinking isn't an excuse.

If you still want her:
Have her block him through facebook/twitter, etc and on her phone. That way you know they aren't talking. Keep an eye on her for awhile. Cheating doesn't always stop when someone is "sorry" no matter how sorry they really seem.

Keep in mind, she knew this guy liked her if she was getting texts, etc of him saying "i love you", etc and she didnt do anything about it. She didn't tell him to stop or to never say that again, etc. Even though she didn't respond to him, she still allowed all of this to continue.

Talk to her. Tell her how you feel. Keep your trust at a low level until she can prove to you otherwise - which takes a long time.

[Andy]

I doubt this question is even real but if it is u obviously want to get back with her, otherwise u won't be asking this question. Tell her u get a one-fu*k-hallpass and go get laid then ur even. If u donno how2 go get laid on cue then just say u did.