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No ones answering. I ended a friendship today and I feel bad about it?
02-12-2013, 09:39 AM
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No ones answering. I ended a friendship today and I feel bad about it?
Sorry if this is too long so this friend and I were friends for a year and a half. We used to get along so well. We used to joke a lot. We used to be really close now. But at the last term of school, he has changed now. He became soo popular and acted like he was all that especially in class. He used to be so quiet in class but instead he was a class clown. He starts to ignore me now and I didn't do anything wrong. 

We didn't talk for four weeks until now. I hate the new him. He acts like a girl by saying "Im a slut", "Im a *****" and "I am a public school skank". Now he has lost his close friends because they think he is a backstabber and that he's up himself. 

Now this friend and I keep having fights but we never had fights before. Whenever we have a fight, he just goes and turns everyone against me and I lose friends because of him. The teachers tell me off and think it was all my fault and I was starting to get depressed so I started cutting myself and tried committing suicide because of that showing off ****. Whenever we are friends, I feel depressed but I try not to and try to keep holding on this friendship but I feel like I needed to let go. 

Someone on twitter is interfering me and my friend's friendship by telling me if I don't block this friend, she will lie to him saying that I always hated him. Last time, she hacked my account on facebook and pretended it was me saying all this then this friend started got very pissed at me and didn't believe me. 

The last fight I had was today when I blocked him then I unblocked him because I wanted to see if he saw my message so I tried to block him again but Facebook wouldn't let me so I kept trying but I accidently poked him so I sent him a message saying "That was by accident. I was trying to block you because apparently you are pissing me off". I don't know what he said now because I deactivate my account so I wouldn't see what he said because I couldn't bear to see what he said. I am now on my backup account and my backup account let me blocked this friend.  

Someone who used to be my friend's friend (I would just call her Faith because I don't want to mention her real name) told me that not to waste time on him and don't trust him just because they don't get along now. When this friend and I became friends, Faith told me that he would back stabbed me again. Then my friend got pissed at her and told her to **** off. Then she said if he does back stab me, she'll be there for me. Then this friend got even more pissed at her now and told her to leave me and him alone. I think Faith is right because this friend did back stabbed me in the past and when I did message him, he didnt answer. But on the morning, he told me he couldnt answer because it was late and he went to bed but I knew he was lying because it was 12:00AM when I sent that message and he went offline at 2:00AM.

I ended this friendship today and now I feel bad because two weeks ago, I send a message about that I promised I wouldn't let go of this friendship. Now I had to let go because it was so hard to not let go. I feel like I am the only one in this friendship trying to keep this friendship alive instead of letting it die. I felt like we could never be close now because I am transferring school and that he has changed. Did I do the right thing?
Pallas, he didn't call those stuff at me. He called stuff about himself. And no, I'm not obsessed with him. I only tried to block him because he was making me depressed. We been friends for a year and a half. I have heaps of issues going through right now which are stressing me out.
And if I was desperate for attention I would not waste my time writing this for half a hour. Just get your facts right.
And if I was desperate for attention I would not waste my time writing this for half a hour. Just get your facts right.
And I only cut myself because I have heaps of issues now. I cut myself because I feel like no one understands me and feel like there's no reason to live. Obviously how would you feel if this happened to you?

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02-12-2013, 09:47 AM
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you definitely did the right thing ,
excuse my bad analogy , but it seems like there is a very heavy load on a small boat and it is causing it sinking .
that load is your "ex" friend , as you must call him ex now . and that boat is you .
let go of the past and move on .
you will be surprised of how many real good friends you can find out there .
I don't know how old are you , but if you ever needed some one to talk to feel free to mail me at moneer.safe yahoo or gmail . any time .

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02-12-2013, 09:47 AM
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Sorry to say this but you've got some serious issues that need to be figured out.

If this boy calls you a slut and a skank and other terrible things, makes you feel depressed and gets you in trouble why would you still want to be his friend. Why would you want to kill yourself over a boy that clearly doesn't think you're worth his time or energy.

You count the number of days you haven't spoken to him, you monitor his Facebook page, and speaking of Facebook, I really don't believe that crap about you trying to block him and poking him by accident. You poked him because you wanted to have an excuse to talk to him.

You either have a huge, obsessive crush on this "friend" of yours or you're just super desperate for attention.

Like really?! People are cutting themselves and committing suicide because they've lost all hope in life or something, and you're doing it because of some boy who couldn't even care less about you that he calls you a slut and a public skank? I'm honestly beginning to think he wasn't just spreading rumors, I'm honestly beginning to think he's right.
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