What do I even do now...?

[Karla]

Okay well me and this guy have been seeing each other for about 4 months. The first time we hung out, we hooked up. I didn't expect much from the relationship then, but he kept on. We continued to hang out, and occasionally we'd still do physical things. But usually we'd just laugh and be silly and just generally enjoy each others company. He's a real gentleman and all, but we aren't dating. He says it's because it's easier for us to get hurt if we have the title of boyfriend/girlfriend, but I don't get that. He certainly doesn't have a problem acknowledging me in public or anything, and everyone knows we're a thing, but he won't take pictures with me or acknowledge our relationship on social media. I'm not really TOO concerned about the last part, but it still kind of makes me think I'm being used maybe. My question is, what is your opinion on what's going on? Any and all advice would be appreciated!!

[Guy]

He's enjoying your company, but doesn't want it to go further. If your looking for more commitment, then you might find it with another guy. And you know what? I feel he'll be happy for you if you find a deeper relationship with someone else.

[Mel]

Yea, move on, show him you don't need his attention and if he doesn't want yours, you'll take it elsewhere cause you got other options.....