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No one answered me. I know it's really long, but plz help me out! Does he like me? I'll answer yours!!?
02-12-2013, 06:26 PM
Post: #1
No one answered me. I know it's really long, but plz help me out! Does he like me? I'll answer yours!!?
- we know each other for 5 months, but we are not really closed
- last week, it was the 1st day of class. I saw him walking toward me (i was sitting in front of the class). So i was nervous and pretended i didnt see him. So i noticed that he almost walked in front of me, then i looked up.
He walked pass me without saying hi at all. So i call his name.
He looked back to me & gave me a big & then we talked

3 days ago during the class, he felt sleep. So i snapped fingers in front of his face. He woke up and looked at me with a huge smile.

- he bought textbook from me for $8. He gave me $20 on Wed. I told him i didn't have change and he can pay me later when he has exactly $8.
- 2 days ago,i asked for money in a playful way. He gave me $20 and told me w/ a smile i don't have to give him change.
- So today i told him i didnt have cash to pay him $12. And i offered to pay him lunch or dinner. At first, he told me not to worry about it. But i told him that i didnt want to feel bad. So he's agree to go eat with me.
He also told me that he has 4 quizzes + 1 exam next week so he will be really busy.
I told him, "its fine. Just tell me when and where you want to go

- He asked me to go party with him 4 times and i didnt go 3 times (it happened around 3 months ago) And he didn't ask me anymore.
- In the party that I went with him, his friends, and one of my friend, he was with me for a whole night. (sometimes he went to talk with his friends and girls). He took care of me, bought me drink all night (and he also asked my friend for drink). I think he took care of me bc I never went to the bar. It was my 1st time went to the bar and he knew it.
- I asked him to watch hockey 3 times with me and my friend. He gave me excuses for 3 times (and he doesnt like hockey) i asked him 3 months ago. And i wont ask him anymore.

We are both 22.
He is really nice guy and outgoing guy
He has lots of female friends
He mentioned about one girl name "Jess" before in front of me and his friend. He said he texted her until 3am but it was nothing
- I ignored him once at the end of last semester (last month). But he didn't do anything.
- I followed him on twitter 3 nights ago, but he still hasn't accepted my following yet.
- Sometimes when he walked into the class, he didn't even say hi to me. We just looked at each other face, nodded, and nothing even we sat next to each other.
- In the class, he kinda distance himself from me even we sit next to each other


Additional Details
We already had lunch together once and i paid for him bc he paid for my drinks in the party.
He was refused to go first bc he didnt want me to pay.
We talked for a whole lunch. But i didnt know it was just friends or more.
- he didnt text or call me during school break at all
- he told me that his mom and sister are on campus right now even i dont know them at all
- he texts me first ONLY for school stuff
- we never text outside of school since the beginning
- he never makes effort to be around me.

Does he like me? Do i show him too strong that i like him? Do you think im an option?
If he likes me why he didnt make plan right away. He told me he has quiz tomorrow & friday & next week.


P.S. I know I have to ask him to know the answer but I'll later (maybe valentines)

***** I texted him asking about quiz tomorrow. He texted me back LESS THAN 1 min.
I texted him back, "I'm so lazy. I don't want even to study at all"
Then he didn't text me back for 20 mins! After that, I texted him again asking about specific topic in the quiz. He texted me back LESS THAN 1 min again!!!
So I was so frustrated about his ignoring my text so I only text, "Thank you so much"
It took him an hour to text me back, "No problem!"

Why he ignored my text but not school text? So he doesn't like me?
Are there any chances that he likes me?
Just YES or NO, but please be honest.

Thank you

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02-12-2013, 06:34 PM
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Well maybe he has a lot going on with school and with you ! Maybe he likes you but he's confused ? Who knows maybe you should talk to him .

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02-12-2013, 06:34 PM
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By what you've just said, he likes you as a friend only..
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02-12-2013, 06:34 PM
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It appears he has become fond of you... Only on subjects to help him in school though. So in other words, he MIGHT be using you to benefit himself in school.Or he's just really busy or maybe he's busy with other friends. Probably not into you in that special way though...
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02-12-2013, 06:34 PM
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the thing about these questions is we can only make a judgement on what you write and the way you write the events is biased to what you already think whether or not youve yet accepted your thoughts from what i can tell by what youve written is that your friendship means alot to you and you don't really feel that he likes you. which is both good and bad seeming as im guessing you like him. which is bad. but at least you wont have to go through a relationship which if it ends will jeopardise your friendship which you cherish so much. from what i can tell you also seem kind of clingy and easy which some guys dont like. maybe if you flirt with him on occasions but rather try and get him to message you first and leave him waiting for you to text him back. but the way he fights opver money and stuff with you making sure you two are always even shows that he cares what you think about him which suggests that you do have a chance depending on how you play it off. but asking him as awkward as it may be could really help you i think he would be flattered and even if he doesnt say he likes you at least theres no misunderstandings and you can know where your at
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