My girlfriend is leaving the country and me for work?

[Lady here]

I met her in August, we got together in November and I have fallen in Love with her, and shes fallen in love with me. Back in November the fact that there is no work and that she is bored here was on her mind so I straight out said "If we continue with this relationship and you up and leave, its just going to be harder at the end of it" and she said " I won't leave you!" but she is? And whenever I get at her about it, she flips? as if I'm supposed to be happy for her?

She acts as if I'm nothing to her, and I'm not supposed to be mad? She never tells me what she is planning with her friend about going, her friend updated on twitter that we shall be leaving on a plane soon, don' know when we will be back, and tagged her. She still hasn't mentioned it? What do I do? there is no point in bringing it up, she just goes mad at me. I'm in love with her, i won't be able to handle this..... advice on anything? Or your opinion?

[Sara]

If she's so willing to leave you....does she really care about you? I would leave her, that's bull.

[jonathan_kelly2001]

Hump her and dump her . . .

[Alex]

Well she's not right for keeping this a secret from you and just telling you about it the last minute, but you're not right for getting mad at her for this. Work is important for all of us, and if this is something that means a lot to her, then you have to respect that, its not a subject for debate here about what/who is more important to her, you guys arent married or have a family together. My advice to you is that you move on like any normal person does, otherwise you're gonna find yourself depresed over someone you can no longer have, life goes on and you WILL fall in love again with someone else, you cannot allow yourself to be this obnoxious and convince yourself that you can only love one person forever.