I always end up stalking my crushes?

[Sarah]

I always feel like I end up stalking the guys I have a crush on. I don't follow them around or follow them around or anything scary like that, but I get sort of fixated on them. If they have facebook or twitter I end up checking their posts several times a day. It's funny though, because it always ends up being that me and all my friends will make jokes about the person and it becomes a giant inside joke. I just get really infatuated with these people that I barely know. It's all physical attraction. Do other people do this stuff. I mean its mostly me talking about the person all the time and it ends up being big jokes. But I do really like the people, maybe a little too much considering theyre people I don't know well. I would never hurt anyone or harass them or anything like that. The only reason I ask if that I talk about the people so much all my friends are sick of hearing about them after a week, and I barely even know these people. Am I a bad person?

[Candace]

I do it too. LOL

[Shabalaba Dingdong]

You aren't a bad person,i think you probably just need to occupy yourself with other things to get your mind of the person you may be fixated upon.our better yet, try introducing yourself to them! I mean, you never know what could happen! Haha

[winning]

thanks for explaining why they are stalkable never been stalked, guess im not attractive

[Lyn]

Oh girlie! I'm just like you ;p but I eventually got over it and just added them. Ur not a bad person at all!! That's normal, in fact, perfectly normal u know what would be weird? Knowing were he lives and going everynight outside of his house and spy on him. Lol. Best of luck

[Anya]

Lol me and my friends used to do the same before! Good times xD We'd would see a very hot guy and add him on fb or something and just stalk him a lot there. And me and my friends would joke about it too. But like instead of just crushing on them secretly we'd try making moves too and get closer to them and maybe even get a date Idk if it's normal or what but all I know is you're not alone xD

[Alaina]

I constantly stalk my fiancé lol I have since we started dating. I'm all over his email, Facebook, iPod, and YouTube page lol it's not that I don't trust him, I trust him with my life, but it's just me lol I'm just that kind of person. You are normal. You are not a bad person
Welcome To The Stalkers Club!

[Obi Wan Knievel]

Of course you're not a bad person. You just have normal crushes (if crushes can be called normal), and do what everyone else does.

If you were a truly bad person, you'd do stuff like killing mutual friends just so you could see him at the funerals. Or maybe pour gasoline on his legs and light him up, then tell him he can have some water but only if he asks you out first. But anything less than that, well OK almost anything, is perfectly harmless.

Crushes are called crushes for a reason, and that reason is because they're so damm heavy and powerful. They're not called squeezes or even difficult loads to carry, because that wouldn't properly describe the feeling. Nope, crush is the only word that can describe something like that.

You're perfectly normal. Go ahead and cyber-stalk all you want.