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No one answered me at all. I know its LONG.. But plz i need help: SHOULD I MOVE ON? 10pts!!?
02-14-2013, 04:17 AM
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No one answered me at all. I know its LONG.. But plz i need help: SHOULD I MOVE ON? 10pts!!?
- last week, it was the 1st day of class. I saw him walking toward me (i was sitting in front of the class). So i was nervous and pretended i didnt see him. So i noticed that he almost walked in front of me, then i looked up.
He walked pass me without saying hi at all. So i call his name.
He looked back to me & gave me a big & then we talked

3 days ago during the class, he felt sleep. So i snapped fingers in front of his face. He woke up and looked at me with a huge smile.

- he bought textbook from me for $8. He gave me $20 on Wed. I told him i didn't have change and he can pay me later when he has exactly $8.
- 2 days ago,i asked for money in a playful way. He gave me $20 and told me w/ a smile i don't have to give him change.
- So today i told him i didnt have cash to pay him $12. And i offered to pay him lunch or dinner. At first, he told me not to worry about it. But i told him that i didnt want to feel bad. So he's agree to go eat with me.
He also told me that he has 4 quizzes + 1 exam next week so he will be really busy.
I told him, "its fine. Just tell me when and where you want to go

- He asked me to go party with him 4 times and i didnt go 3 times (it happened around 3 months ago) And he didn't ask me anymore.
- In the party that I went with him, his friends, and one of my friend, he was with me for a whole night. (sometimes he went to talk with his friends and girls). He took care of me, bought me drink all night (and he also asked my friend for drink). I think he took care of me bc I never went to the bar. It was my 1st time went to the bar and he knew it.
- I asked him to watch hockey 3 times with me and my friend. He gave me excuses for 3 times (and he doesnt like hockey) i asked him 3 months ago. And i wont ask him anymore.

We are both 22.
He is really nice guy and outgoing guy
He has lots of female friends
He mentioned about one girl name "Jess" before in front of me and his friend. He said he texted her until 3am but it was nothing
- I ignored him once at the end of last semester (last month). But he didn't do anything.
- I followed him on twitter 3 nights ago, but he still hasn't accepted my following yet.
- Sometimes when he walked into the class, he didn't even say hi to me. We just looked at each other face, nodded, and nothing even we sat next to each other.
- In the class, he kinda distance himself from me even we sit next to each other


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We already had lunch together once and i paid for him bc he paid for my drinks in the party.
He was refused to go first bc he didnt want me to pay.
We talked for a whole lunch. But i didnt know it was just friends or more.
- he didnt text or call me during school break at all
- he told me that his mom and sister are on campus right now even i dont know them at all
- he texts me first ONLY for school stuff
- we never text outside of school since the beginning
- he never makes effort to be around me.

Does he like me? Do i show him too strong that i like him? Do you think im an option?
If he likes me why he didnt make plan right away. He told me he has quiz tomorrow & friday & next week.


P.S. I know I have to ask him to know the answer but I'll later (maybe valentines)

***** I texted him asking about quiz tomorrow. He texted me back LESS THAN 1 min.
I texted him back, "I'm so lazy. I don't want even to study at all"
Then he didn't text me back for 20 mins! After that, I texted him again asking about specific topic in the quiz. He texted me back LESS THAN 1 min again!!!
So I was so frustrated about his ignoring my text so I only text, "Thank you so much"
It took him an hour to text me back, "No problem!"

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02-14-2013, 04:25 AM
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no one cares, deal with it

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02-14-2013, 04:25 AM
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What does your heart tell you? Deep down you already know the answer. But to eliminate any question, ask him. That is the beauty of texting, no face to face awkwardness
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02-14-2013, 04:25 AM
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He is a nice guy, and has no issue with money, you are just part of his circle of acquaintances, you are not a real friend just a school friend since he does answer about school stuff.
Texting is the cowards way of talking to people, even phoning is better than texting.
There is no moving on involved he is someone you know at school nothing serious here.
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02-14-2013, 04:25 AM
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If you think you might need to move on, you should.

True love has a better start than this.
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02-14-2013, 04:25 AM
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It sounds like you are in the 'friend zone'. I wouldnt expect to have a serious relationship with him, for one, he is young and has many female friends, and is not likely to settle down anytime soon. I know its hard to really like someone that makes you wonder if they like you as much, but it happens to everyone, believe me, and its painful, but you eventually get over it, and then you look back and wonder what you ever saw in the person, trust me. Maybe you can find a way to distance yourself from him and get involved with new activities or hobbies to get your mind off of him. Its hard, but it seems like it would be the best thing you can do for yourself. You deserve to be with someone who likes you as much as you like them, but you have to make the effort to get out there and be available to find that person. Best wishes to you!
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02-14-2013, 04:25 AM
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This young man has yet to make up his ind about you. To him, you are a friendly girl, and not a girl friend.
He has a lot on his mind, which is the real reason he does not study well, when he should.
Please stop sending him texts in school hours.
Her does not greet you in the classroom as it would embarrass him rather much. Also, if he did this, he will be teased to pieces.
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02-14-2013, 04:25 AM
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Come on. You need to move on. You said that no one answers your question. But you did get a lot of answers. And a lot of the answers that you got were good. There is nothing going on between you and that guy. The guys will never like you the way that you want him to like you. And you need to get that in your head. You are wasting your time trying to figure out if he likes you or not. I'm telling you that he does not like you. How many more answers do you need before you realize that he only likes you as friend? You need to let this go. Don't make a fool of you by trying to show him that you like him. He does not care. And stop texting him because I think you are starting to annoy him.
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02-14-2013, 04:25 AM
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it is a long story...stop with the constant communication, he might feel crowded.

it looks like you are looking in things too deep so like a band aid get this on over and done with just ask him straight otherwise every move he does and doesnt do you are going to question"what does it mean"

your 22 and by the sounds of it you are acting like you are in school, you are an adult now just march your butt to him and tell him straight i like you, do you want to go and get coffee some time? if he does great arrange it but play the field to, its a date it doesnt mean you are his alone.

if he doesnt then you can get over him,
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02-14-2013, 04:25 AM
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No, he isn't interested in you, NOW.
He was interested in you before when he asked you out 4 times!
WHO THE HELL LIKES HOCKEY? 1 out of 10000 guys like hockey!
You have different taste than him maybe that's why you guys don't fit in.
He just likes you as a friend and nothing more.
There are level ups in friends too but in your case it won't be a relationship.
Be friends with him and find another guy who's worth your time.
P.S. Twitter is not Facebook, No one "accepts" follows. They just follow back.
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