help...what should i do?

[Brandonsmama]

i have been with my husband for 10 years we been married for almost 4 of those years...we have 2 kids together...lately i feel like different...i dont know how to explain it i wanna be with him but then again i dont...i dont know why i feel like this and need some help on how to deal with it..

[me]

go to counseling

[Poopy, Just Poopy]

10 years is a long time... sounds like your too accustom to him.

Ship the kids to the sitter and surprise him, yes that way, when he comes home from work.. try and liven things up.


Or, do like some of the heffers here do, and just barely tolerate him, ignore his needs, and then come here and complain that he's cheating.

[Brave Heart]

you need to ignite the spark.. May be you both are very comfortable with each other.

[l8tr g8tr]

Ride it out...marriage has its ups and downs.

[l8tr g8tr]

You may get many good, interesting & diverse answers. I hope you do, kinda like a menu of choices. Hopefully mostly good suggestions.

You know very well that what you're feeling is what happens to so many marrieds. The urge, the wondering about what else could have been possible Is it still possible?

If you're trying to stay away from involvement w/ another partner [on the sly], then perhaps some fantasizing in acceptable ways might be useful.

No, I do not mean social media....that's way dangerous, way too many unknowns.

Novels & movies [DVDs] where the protagonist [That's you!] is involved in romantic crises that move you. Get'em from the library, free.

Share the best novels/movies w/ your closest GF's. As long as you keep fantasy world separated from soccer-mom world, you're all right. Its harmless, but fun!