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Should I quit or should I stay? PLEASE HELP ME?!?
02-15-2013, 04:24 AM
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Should I quit or should I stay? PLEASE HELP ME?!?
I know this is long but this hurt me so much that I considered to end everything in my life...

So months back I made cheer videos and this girl got offended. It was a cheerleading video about flyer tips.. The one tip the girl got offended by was a tip that another cheer guru on youtube said in a video. I also added a little of my past experience. She got offended because I said that "flyers should shave their legs & that it was gross. I once front spotted this girl & it was gross." Honestly I didn't mean to go on in the video like that nor hurt anyones feelings, but she assumed like it was nothing that I was talking about her. If someone ever said shit about me in a video I wouldn't go telling everyone like she did. She could of talked to me about it. Now I was talking about how I didn't get my cheer skirt on twitter & one of the girls on my team mentions me everything thats going on.. How everyones mad at me the coaches, teamates, parents, etc. She said that even if I apologize she'd still be fond on me. If I go back the people on my team won't think of me as the same nice person I was. I HONESTLY DIDN'T MEAN TO HURT ANYONES FEELINGS! One of the girls quit because many things: She was borrowing my skirt because hers was too long so coach let her borrow mine. So I texted her today asking nicely if she could give me my skirt back and she said no. Its a long story but her mom told her she either keeps the skirt or she quits. In not getting the skirt back sp looks like coach owes me a skirt or my parents money back. Im afraid to go back, everyone hates me except the girl who left & one of my teamate who I was the closest to. I really don't want to leave because shes supporting me through this but at the sametime everyones planning what to say to me. I also don't like how they said im over dramatic, complain too much, & how i think im better than everyone. I never said nor acted like I was. I don't like how they automatically start talking behind my back & how the coaches aren't fixing the situation. They also talked about the girl who borrowed my skirt in the past. Should I leave or should I stay? I do owe them an apology but I don't like how their going to treat me for the rest of the time im there.. What would you do please help!?!?

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02-15-2013, 04:32 AM
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Honestly, I would leave, but I wouldn't leave without apologizing face to face and letting them know your intentions and how you really feel. If they need you, they'll beg you to come back.

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