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He tried to kiss me and I tried to get away. I need help. What do I do?
02-15-2013, 07:04 AM
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He tried to kiss me and I tried to get away. I need help. What do I do?
So this guy I used to know is a creepy. He was always stalking me after between classes, during our free period, lunch, before and after school. I told him to leave me alone but he didn't listen. He tried to find me. He tried to kiss me and touch me. And each day, I was living in fear. I had all my friends check up on me and they all were behind me. They supported me and tried to keep this guy away. He didn't listen. This was going on since August 22nd. And now, it got serious. Really serious. Serious enough that some teachers reported and the administrators of my school were on the lookout.

Here's what happened today: This is the note that I wrote to my friend because she wasn't here today and I needed her help. Below is the link of the note: https://twitter.com/i/#!/phenomenialller...2FxykqotZR

Anyways, the guy is really aggressive and he has some anger problems. I knew him before this happened. We were friends, then our lives changed, and then this happened.

Today was the last day of school before my winter break. I drove home today afterschool (3:00pm). I threw up just from thinking about it. I ate a few crackers and tried not to think about it. But I couldn't. The fact that it happened scared me. I got so scared that I was crying myself to sleep. I didn't even wake up until 11:30pm tonight. I kept thinking "why did it have to happen to me?" I didn't know how to answer that question. It scared me. Even my parents and relatives know this. They don't really like him either.

I really need your opinion on what I should do. I'm scared and I don't want this to drag on for the rest of my senior year. Thank you and please! no hate. I really have enough to deal with.

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02-15-2013, 07:12 AM
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I know how it feels. He's probably insane. There are three things you can do about it:
Tell about this to your parents, go to the police, he's emotionally abusing you.
Just ignore him, and act like he's not there.
But the best you can do to yourself is do not play against him. The more you run, more he will want to catch you. Play along his games, i know it sounds crazy, but its the only to get rid of this creepy. He will think you're stupid enough to be in his games, so he will stalk another one. Don't worry, it will be ok.

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02-15-2013, 07:12 AM
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Thanks for your input on my question, I truly appreciate it.

Now, this guy is a fucking creep. Borderline psychopath. Report him to the police. You were molested. You need a restraining order. You can't even sleep or eat properly because of this sick bastahd. Go to the police and have them help you. You have every right to do so. If you were my sister, you wouldn't even need the police because he would already be in the hospital.
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02-15-2013, 07:12 AM
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Well seems he needs a good Fashion beat down. Get a guy friend or to beat him down. Or just tell him that youre going to tell youre dad (not really just a lie) that should really shut him up. My friend did that too me and i was pretty scared
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02-15-2013, 07:12 AM
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Hey darling dont be afraid. Tell your parents about it and see what they say. If necessary have your parents contact that boys parents to discuss this problem with them. The boy obviously has problems and he needs help. I hope the administrators do something about it. Check with them over the winter break to see what actions they are planning to take when school resume. If they are not doing anything to help protect you and help the boy, have your parents inisist on the school to provide him daily counseling for his anger and his problems of his own, which is causing this type of behavior towards you. He must attend daily or find a counselor out of school or else he is not permitted to come back to school. If necessary the school needs to hire a counselor who will watch him daily at his side and be his friend/mentor, and he is not allowed to see you anymore. Meaning he is not allowed in the cafeteria or in the same classroom as you until he get better. In the mean time protect yourself, He is stalking and preying on you, finding your weak and vulnerable moments. That is when you are alone. So dont be alone. Learn to scream and hit, that should scare him away. That shows you are not weak and will fight back. They prey on victims who seem weak.
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02-15-2013, 07:12 AM
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You need help. Talk to elders.

Talk to your parents. Do it. Don't let it get worse. If the guy has anger related issues, don't let it get worse. It can be seriously dangerous for you. And you don't have to go through the mental stress you are going through.

In conclusion, speak to elders who would understand and help you.
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02-15-2013, 07:12 AM
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He's too clingy. See a counsellor. :o
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02-15-2013, 07:12 AM
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restraining order all the way, or prosecute him. he is a CREEP who wont change
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