Why has my girlfriend stopped texting me?

[tikiman14]

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost a year. We're both juniors in highschool and last year things were great! we texted all the time and talked during school and hung out on the weekends. As of late she hasn't been anwering my texts or when she does its a one or two word answer and then she'll stop altogether. Almost every weekend I text her and ask her if she wants to hang out and I usually get no response. I really love her and she's said she loved me too but I just don't know anymore. She sits in front of me in one of my classes and doesn't even talk to me usually. If there is time left in class she'll be on her phone on twitter or something and I'm behind her wondering what to do! I don't wanna lose her and I don't know what to do! I'm afraid to ask her because she might get mad or annoyed (if she isn't already). I think about her all the time and I do all I can to see her in the halls but she doesn't seem to be making an effort to see me; I'll go out of my way to pass her in the hall but she doesn't do the same when I know she could. Am I overthinking all of this or should I be concerned?

[relievedgrade537]

Hey, I'm so sorry that she's treating you like this. You sound dedicated and respectful of her, and you don't deserve this.

No, there is definitely something going on. It doesn't neccessarily mean that she's into someone else, but maybe she's going through something. Bottom line is, something isn't right and the way she's treating you is unacceptable. You should talk to her and get straight to the point. If she avoids the questions or acts like you're doing something wrong by asking, then it might be time to walk away. By the sounds of how you treat her, I know there's tons of girls out there who would appreciate having you.

Good luck and I hope you and your girl work this out

[Loves Tristin]

lots of girls get worried over a lot of things... i don't mean to be rude or intrude into your lives but, if you two might be having sex or what not... maybe she is worried she is pregnant. i stopped talking all together when i was worried i didn't talk for days... ask her about it. and confront her about your worries and ask her about them.. like "are you mad at me?" "do you like someone else?" "whats bothering you?" or something like that... as i should know. girls love attention and it sounds like yours is worth it... give it a try and see how it goes. she might be worth it.... and you might regret not asking... ive been there before and i do regret it. if you love her... ASK