How to deal with the bullying?

[elizabeth]

Alright, well I know for one you probably see these often and you'll probably just say "Stand up, or tell an adult" so lets get this out of the way first and foremost.

I've tried standing up, it made it worse. I've told COUNTLESS adults, they've done nothing.

Here we go:
I'm homeschooled but I know everyone at the local high-school because of my boyfriend. I'm constantly bullied on Facebook about my looks, especially my nose which is kind of on the bigger side, my boobs which are on the smaller side, and how thin I am...which isn't my fault, everyone in my family is thin.
Anyways, I blocked the people bullying, but somehow a lot of them got my number and I've been getting constant texts.

I let it go, let it roll off my shoulders. Then I tried telling adults but they won't do anything about it.
What do you suggest I do?
Well, I was friends with them because they're the ones who added me.
And I can't change my number, my mom said it costs about $20 that we don't have.
That comment was meant for Sara, not the people who were nice about it.

[john]

when they do that again beat them within inches of their life and they won do it no more

[Alexander]

Stop using Facebook and report the people who have been texting you to the police. It may seem drastic, but it'll work.

[gentlerecess866]

Don't let petty people get to you.
Stop using facebook, or make a new account and hide your profile.
If you need to, change your number.
Obviously it's getting to you, but you really shouldn't care. Teenagers are pathetic.
I was bullied in middle school and I'm still dealing with how it made me feel. I take antidepressants because of it, I've been to the hospital. You don't want to end up like that.

[tortuga c:]

First, you should change your number. Your number is a really private thing and it would be pretty bad for the wrong people to get it. There's no shame in being "too thin". If people are really teasing you for being too thin, they are really jealous. I know you might hear that a lot, but it's true in that condition. It's kind of hard to just ignore the bad things people say, so the best thing to do is to just get away from it, which in your case would be to change your number. I've been bullied before, I know it's not a good experience. I hope things get better for you soon.

[Sara]

Get off Facebook, why are you friends with them in the first place? And change your number. Jesus

[Jollygirl125]

I was bullied for a very long time. What you need to do is go directly to their house (yes I know this is scary) and ask to speak to their parents, tell them what's been going on. This will not only scare the bully, but will put an end to it.

[CJ]

Go to the police if no one else will listen. It is harassment and if you tell them that you have done what you can and nothing is helping they will take care of it. Save all of the messages and texts so that they have some evidence to go on. Also, going to the parents is a super good idea ^^

[Hollister]

Don't let people get to you! there most likely jealous and have nothing to do with there lifes besides be rude to people , there probably low life losers .just block them , change you're number or make a private facebook . did you tell you're mom? or any family member around you? well just stay strong and think positive

[raspybed789]

I was bullied in the past, so I understand what you are going through and I am also a mentor for students suffering from teen bullying, so hopefully this answer will be helpful to you:

First off all nobody deserves to be bullied and bullying is not your fault. Don't listen to the nasty jerks who call you names. Don't take it to heart and remember that they think they are big and hard bullying a person on the internet. They are cowards because they bully people in large groups but on there on they would never bully someone.

Please don't listen to the comments. I believed what the bullies said to me and it ruined my life. I sank into depression and my whole world got destroyed, and it took years for me to get better but if I had not listened to them everything would have be alright. Bullies tend to bullies those they are jealous of and if that's you in your profile picture then you are a beautiful girl and you're gorgeous, and they are haters. Bullies have no life and they are sad and pathetic.

Delete your facebook account and don't use it again. If you have anything like twitter or any other social networking site then don't use it again. Block those people on your phone and also change your number so they don't contact you again. You can also report them to the police as not only is it bullying but it's also harrassment.

Which adults did you tell? It's important that you tell the right people. If you haven't told your parents then please do so already. I also suggest you talk to a counsellor - I'm planning on becoming a counsellor and it doesn't matter if you are homeschooled or not you can still talk to a counsellor. Counsellors are great as they are trained and know how to deal with this, and they also understand what you are going through. Talk to them or somebody you can trust who can help you, offer you advice and also be there for you.

Don't worry about the haters. I bet you're beautiful and there's nothing wrong with being thin and having small boobs. I have small boobs too and you're boyfriend loves you for who you are. Being thin is a good thing as you can eat a lot without having to worry about getting fat you have a fast metabolism which means you burn off fat and carbs faster than others, hence why you're slim and so is the rest of your family.

Good luck to you. I wish cyber-bullying was taken more seriously and more people helped. I hoped I helped xoxo