10 points! I'm scared that my ex will get raped by his new girlfriend?

[Girly Q]

My ex boyfriend and I were each others firsts and together for a year and a half before he "fell out of love with me for fighting too much", fights that were mostly started by him. He and I took a break for 2 months, where he blocked me on all social media and other sites before re-adding me and deciding to Skype me again starting just this Saturday.

He has a new girlfriend that he's had for about a month now. He's only mentioned her once and said that he is "in a relationship" with her. He doesn't mention her around his friends and never mentions her on Facebook (they don't comment or "like" each others posts/photos).
I don't know if she's a virgin or not (he and I are), but two of her exes are my friends and they've told me that she likes to be extremely touchy and will do anything to get her hands on a man's ****.
She's had 5 boyfriends and a girlfriend (the longest being a month) while my ex and I have only had 1 relationship.

However, he and I have agreed to become best friends and we talk every day for hours. We've only fought once (over his girlfriend blackmailing me), but other than that he knows that he can come to me for comfort, help and anything else he needs.

I told him that I trust him, but he claims he doesn't trust me because "I told myself so". He says he's going to think it over.

I still have feelings for him, but I don't know if he knows. More than anything, I want him back but mostly away from his new girlfriend. I've become extremely depressed and paranoid over what she might do to him...

1. How can I bond my relationship with him?
2. Will his new girlfriend last any longer?
3. Might he come back to me?

Thanks! And please don't tell me to move on, I want to help this guy.

[Kristine Theresa]

1. Just be a great friend to him and be there for him, but don't be pushy. He will come to you when he needs something. Also, don't say anything that will get his girlfriend mad at him, because he will most likely take it out on you.

2. Considering all of her relationships have been very short, I don't think it will. But you never know.

3. It is a 50/50 chance. You kind of have to let cupid work his magic and see what happens with him. But, if you are the one to break up him and his girlfriend, then he probably won't want to get back with you.

Good luck!

[Miska]

Send him to the gym.

[Derek]

If your worried about him you should just tell him. If he really does want to be your friend he'll believe you. As for the thing about wanting to get back together, just give it some time. He should come back to you because you seem a hell of a lot better than what he has now. If he just sticks with her, just leave him be. If he makes the wrong choice, you might not be able to convince him otherwise

[Izzy]

Firstly i'm glad that you both are virgins stay as long as you can..!! Well if he truly loves you he'll come back to you and maybe he's dating that girl to make you jealous maybe he wants you to make a move...!! And i don't think his new girlfriend would last longer by seeing her past...And of course he will come back to you stay patient and dont lose trust..!!
Good luck..!!

[Ay]

I don't use this word very often but I think your ex's girlfriend is a b****. If you're going to be his best friend you have to support him and this *****. Bonding is a time of getting to know each other again. It's going to be hard especially if his ***** girlfriend is the jealous type. Anyway, don't worry too much because he's going to notice her extremely slu*** personality. If he breaks up with her, you have to let him know again that you love him. And just go from there. Good luck!

[Ash]

FYI - guys can't be raped without 'props'. There's a nice mental image for you there.
1. Tell him that you still love him, or just carry on what you are doing. The latter will keep you as friends.
2. From the sounds of it, I don't think so. She sounds really fickle.
3. If you tell him that you still love him, or his new gf dumps him, I'd think so. You seem nice and he shouldn't have left you.

Hope this helps xxx

[Flame]

1) You have to trust that he knows what is right for him. You cannot force him to act any specific way, but you can support him. Support is a great way to get back on the right foot. It seems he struggles to trust you, maybe that was caused by your previous relationship, but clearly you need to gain his trust again. Give him a little space. You don't have to move on, but let him figure some things out.

2) hard to say, it seems she is a very loose person who doesn't have long lasting relationships, so I would say no... But I don't have enough info to make a good call.

3) Anything is possible, but he has to decide that for himself. If you still feel this bond, he might too. He may still be working it out for himself, who knows. Give him space though, if he breaks up with his current girlfriend, it would be ok to tell him how you feel.

I think it is important that you give him space and time to think.

Best of luck
~Flame

[hersheynrey]

If it were meant for you two to be together you would be together. It also sounds like you two cant get along. There is no reason that there should be fighting between a couple. Thats where communication skills comes in. All you can do is be his friend and see what happens. Another thing, dont ever believe anything that other people tell you about other people especially since they are x boyfriends so of course they are going to talk bad about her. If she was so horny and couldnt keep her hands off of them they would of never let her go. They are talking bad because she wouldnt touch them or let them touch her. Unless he is retarded or something and unable to take care of himself or know what is going on he can take care of himself and doesnt need any help. This girl is not going to rape him but he is probably hoping that she will. Guys are straight up dogs and when they are in there teens all they can think of is being able to fool around with girls. If he wasnt with this girl you wouldnt even be paying attention but since he is your x and seeing him with another girl of course makes you jealous. If you want to bond with him and maybe get him back the best thing you can do is to not ever mention anything about his new girlfriend. Just be sweet and happy and dont fight with him about anything. Let him see what a great girl you are and that you no longer want to fight with him

[Dasie]

Well, first of all, I want you to calm down. Lemme introduce myself. Hey, I'm izzy. 😋

So, on your second question, I personally think that if he's a virgin, and if he's gonna stay being a virgin, he'll find out the truth about his girlfriend.
To be honest, his new girlfriend is an actress. She doesn't care about him. All she wants is to see his ****. Their relationship won't last because he'll find out somehow about what she really wants. He'll catch on. I don't think it'll last longer.

As for the first question, there's a way to strengthen your bond between him and you in a way that'll make him break up with his new girlfriend for you.
Your role is easy! I'll explain how to make him fall for you again but first, you have to understand how your relationship is supposed to work, whether you're dating, engaged, friends or married.
The only way to make him want you is to simply tell him how you're feeling. This'll make him comfortable around you, making you irrisistable-in his eye. If you tell him how you're feeling-even if it's a negative emotion, he'll be comfortable to tell you how he's feeling. So, that's basically how to strengthen your relationship (a lot!)

For the third question,
Yes, if you do what I explained above 😋

But just be there for him, and if you want him to come back to you, use the strategy. If you don't, fine, so be it. If He needs help, do your best to reach out to him. That's the way it should be after your guys relationship's done.

Hope this helps,
Good luck to both of you,
~izzy