How to reply??What to do?? (urgent!)?

[David]

My best friend is afraid of relationships .. She had only one and it went so bad ..
She loved the guy so much but he cheated on her ..

I told her that I like her and she told me that she is not over ex and
she doesn't like me that way + our friendship is great and she doesn't wanna ruin it

I told her fine, just forget everything I said. and be just friends

Then I noticed a change in her way of treating me..
She became kind of cold ..

I asked her about it ..

She was like .. We can't be friends anymore, it is weird ..
After what happened we can't be as close as we were ..

I tried to convince her that everything is fine and nothing happened ..
I was like, I just told you that I like you!! You don't like me back? Fine, let's move on!!

At the end of the conversation I told her ..
You don't wanna be friends? OK, I can't do anything about it .. bye, I wish the best in your life..
and I deleted her from my bbm , facebook , twitter ... etc


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This was one week ago ..

Now she just sent me Happy birth Day message!

How should I reply???
Should be like " Thaaank you .. You're the best!"
or more like " Thank you!"

I dunno ..

+ what should I do next? Should ask to enter msn or something to chat?
I dunno pleease help!! I'm confused .. Why did she even sent the hbd massage!

[Bear]

Give her time! A poorly ended relationship can leave behind some bad memories!

[Chayla]

the second one.....its more formal and less 'flirtacious' or whatever

[Ryan Train]

just thank her haha

[Katie]

Trying be friendly and nice and see wht happens
Hope it all goes well....
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[innocentbxgurl]

the second answer is best in this situation.
she realizes that having a good friendship is better than nothing.

my advice: give her time to heal. just let her know that you'd be there for her, if she needs someone to talk to or someone to listen.

[Danni]

Well first Happy Birthdaay ;D Now back to your question; how to reply? Well that's easy c; , say "Thanks " and add like a smiley face.

I do think it's a little immature for her to not want to be friends over a situation like that, childish pretty much ;P . I personally don't find it weird if my best guy friend likes me unless he tries to kiss me or something like that, you said forget about it and that's what she should have done.

She probably sent you a happy birthday message to at least show you that she cares about you, personally that's what I think ;D

Good luck with your friend Wishing you the best

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