Do I confront him and tell him i'm done with our friendship, or what? (Sorry it's long, but I NEED advice!)?

[Alex S]

well maybe you guys should patch things up , you dont have to be as close again but it would be good if you werent enimies

[Top Banana]

well you were honest in telling him how you feel. if he can't handle that he's being immature. go on with you life.

[Tanner]

Not stupid at all
First of all don't fret its not the end of the world its the beginning.
Tell him I am sorry but I have my feelings which you can not take from me.
I would like too patch up our friendship, but if you do not than it is you that it is missing out.
Good Luck

[PrincessMary]

thats not a stupid teen problem, girl. thats serious. talk to him. explain that you like him, but you've been hurt by him. then tell him that it would be better if you just forgot about the entire thing and did a complete restart. wipe off the slate and start all over again

[Denys]

He scooped you up and threw you in a plastic bag?! I hate it when somebody treats ME like dog poo!

Seriously, I think you just "let it go." Don't badmouth him, don't say anything to him . . . and whenever your paths cross be pleasant but not warm. Don't let on. Your best shot, now, at putting this back together is to take something like HIS attitude.

You know . . . he may wait too long, and someone else much nicer might take his place!

[Tyler]

this isn't that long! I think he may be confused. either about whether or not he likes you romantically as well OR maybe he's struggling with his sexuality as most of us did as teens. I think giving space was a good idea but now he's talking sh*t about you and that's not cool. put the drama to rest and be the bigger person. email him or call him and say something along the lines of: "I wanted to tell you that you're a good friend to me and I don't want to lose you." then when his guard is lowered say "I wasn't mad at you...I was hurt. I opened up and told you how I feel which was hard for me and then I felt like you just ignored it and started acting caustic/mean to me. can you see where I'm coming from?" or "put yourself in my shoes." hopefully, he'll open up to you then. if not give it time. if he never does then realize that it may hurt but he was never a true friend to begin with!

if he doesn't like you like that...then fine but at least have the guts to just tell you the truth. prove to him you can handle his honesty. good luck!

[Green Nabradly]

This is hard.finding the right words to say is not easy either. you might just have confront him. after all i thing its really stupid that he would just throw away years of friendship just because you told him you liked him. its not cool at all.i hope that helps. don't tell him its over just yet. just tell your friends that you need there help to get him in a certain place so you can talk. if that doesn't work out then you will have to do it on your own. good Luck!!!

[Irene]

I think you scared the sh*t out of him with your confession! Sorry to be so blunt ;-)
Is there any way you can talk to him privately and try to find a way to go back to the way it was before? The only other reason for his behavior I can think of is: he likes you too but is too scared to fess up... But the answer is the same, try to talk to him without interferance and work it out. I know, its going to be tough and possibly painfull but at least you get to say what you need to tell him and if he does want to end the friendship you'll know for sure... Better than this insecurity! Good luck!

[glamorchick954]

I'd say fug him for being a d***. He expects you to patch things up that's why he never tries. Also if he didn't even think about apologizing up to now? That's just being immature! You do not need a boy like that (especially what he said about you on his Twitter page).