where can i find someone bi sexual preferally a woman to have a threesome with me and my husband?

[angelica m]

i want some one clean no stds and willing to do this with no strings attached!

[Blue Boxer Shorts]

KINKY OWWWW BABY

[Brandi]

lol @ blueboxers

craigslist?

[lil666angel]

some people put ads in the news papers ^_^
and on the internet
and craigslist
ect.

of course you can even put the ad on this (yahoo answers) lol

[dancing_smurf]

For starters you are trying to search for someone that is very difficult to find, a single woman interested in a threesome. Generally speaking it will take time to find a willing participant and even longer if you are not willing to be flexible.

For most people the starting point is the internet. I notice it is common for people on Yahoo! Answers to recommend social networking sites. In my honest opinion it is a waste of time. Many replies you will get will be time wasters, guys posing as women, escorts, and those trying to sell you something. Instead you are better off using sites that meet you needs. These tend to be 'poly' sites, swinging, dating, and bi / gay sites. Ideally you want a site with people from your area and that does not cost allot of money. The advantage of using the internet it allows you to be specific about the type of person you are wanting, an opportunity to develop some rapport with them, and gives you a chance to think through your choice before actually meeting them. With that said if you are going to use the internet you need to be prepared to travel and think about safety.

Your next option is attending a swingers club. People tend to have mixed feelings about swingers clubs. Some will say it is a great way to meet people and by going to a swingers club it also cuts down on the time meet people. While others say they are overrated and not worth the money they charge. In any event if you do go to one you will need to be aware the reason why single women are giving free or reduced admission is because they rarely attend. This means you will be competing with other couples in the event that a single woman does attend and it does not guarantee that you will be successful. As a choice this will mean you need to weigh the costs of attending versus your chance of success.

This leaves you will other sources such as friends, co-workers, business associates, and the newspapers. For starters newspapers are essentially dead. Nobody really reads them anymore and newspapers are struggling to compete with the internet. Taking out an ad in a newspaper may get you a few replies but I am not convinced it is worth it. Another option is to consider the people around you as potential playmates. At first this may look like a good choice but the reality is it is not. Once you bring up the idea of having a threesome it will forever change your relationship and if it is a job related relationship it could incur other issues that may end your career. Best advice is a stranger may take longer to find but you will be protecting yourself.

Now the question becomes if using someone we know is not an option and looking for a stranger will take some time then how do we increase our chances? The best bet will be to consider inviting a couple. Most women interested in having a threesome do so once they are in a relationship and not when they are out of one. If you are determined to find a bisexual woman who is unattached then the best advice I can give is be flexible with your boundaries, be prepared to romance her, and be prepared the threesome you envisioned may not happen.

Finally to answer you question how to avoid someone with STDs and is clean. For starters there is no guarantee to this due to medical privacy laws. This means you will have to go on what they say, your gut instincts, and by practicing safe-sex. In addition a good idea would be to ensure you place this in your ad, question any potential playmate about their sexual history, and use condoms.

In any event I hope my answer has helped, wish you the best on your journey, and if you do go ahead with this I hope it is successful for you.

[miz_woody]

There are a lot of places where you can find somebody. Try your local gay bar or place an ad. If I were you I would meet in a public place to see if you connect and if you don't at least the person does not know where you live.And let somebody know where you are going. It can be fun finding that person to share the experience with.