Is she a good friend or a bad friend?

[john]

what kind of friend would you call this? real or fake? Okay I have this friend I made in college. So every time I would ask her to hang out withme and my sister, she'd always say "Yes"I love hanging out with you girls,and say good things aboutus,butit never happens,instead she goes to hang out with other friends. and she NEVER invites us NO WHERE, but she always say she wanna hang out withus.So a few weeks ago, I asked her to call me cause I needed advice, so she did,& she gave it to me. Then she ask if I wanted to go to breakfast with her,and btw (none of her other friends were around,itwas when everyone was prettymuchgone) So we chatted, and she told me we'd hang out overbreak,so then me andmysisterasked her if she wanted to watch movies withus andshe said she would.So she asked us to help her pack, andwe did, then she shut herlaptopandsaid she wouldn't be able to watch the movie cause she hadtoleave. She was also telling me how one of her roomates was judgemental,then she hung around her,then she was telling me how her bestfriend gets on her nerves, andhow she wish herbestfriend would move out the room. And I tweeted something on twitter,and she mentioned me saying "true that sister"should I even respond to that,tellherhow me andmysisterfeel? So then I told her I needed to tell her something, she told me to text her, then she asked me if everything was okay. So I told her I was moving colleges, and she said "Nowhy? , then I ask her if she wantedme tomove,then she said no, cause mycollege is a good school,so then I told her why I was moving, and she said she think colleges in Texas would be a good college. So after that I asked what was she doing for her birthday,and she said she didn't know, then I asked her if she was hanging out with people, andshesaid probably. so I went weeks without talking to her, andshe texted me saying she misses us andseeing how mybreak was going, and of course I responded. then like a few days later, I asked her how hers was going, then she responded, then I asked her again if she wanted to hang out with me and my sister,and she didn't respond, and that was like a week ago, and I haven't talked to her since. What kinda friend would you call this? I really need help, then we seen her at the bible study, and she was trying to be friendly, and me and my sister were kinda looking at her like she was weird.. So then I tweeted something on twitter, and Im guessing she thought it was about her, and she unfollowed me.. Is she or was she a true friend?

[Damona]

FAKE FRIEND! i had a friend like that. and when she finally came over she stole alot of my stuff that ment a lot to me. trust me kick her to the curb. and if she asks why havent u spoken to her be like well u always seem busy and you never really hang out with me im sorry but what kind of friend is that? and if she says why are u being mean just be like im not being mean im just saying the truth. and if u want to move colleges do it! dont stay to please her! shes just using you because when she has no one else she knows u will always be there because U ARE the good friend not her. trust me if you move colleges you will meet new and better friends. i went threw this but in high school i switched high schools and i made a really good best friend! so worth it. but i mean if she wont give u and ur sister time please dont give her time. if she wants advice just tell her to do what she thinks is best. and the twitter thing happened to me too, but instead she BLOCKED ME and on fb too. weird right? trying to play the victim when they are the fake friend. and shes just trying to make u feel bad and when shes lonely she knows ur always gonna be there even if she treats u liek crap and tells u what u want to hear. as hard as it seems you need to let go and move on to more and better friends in life. shes trash . good luck