I'm scared to be in a relationship.?

[DERP]

I'm 14 and a girl, I've only had one boyfriend. He asked me out, I said yes and everything was great, but the next day of being with him I just felt bad. Like there were bad butterflies in my stomach and I didn't like it so I had to break up with him. And it was like that with every guy that liked me. In school I couldn't wait for him to ask me out, but then when we were on Facebook and he asked me, I panicked and said no... I don't know why. Can anyone help me?

[TT2196]

you arent ready for a commitment/ havent actually found someone you like

[Top Source]

See a doc/shrink for anxiety probs.

[Jordan]

well your 14. so your young. i too am scared of relationships and im 25! BUT only because i been dicked over a lot. if you really like him say yes. you had so many opportunites dont turn them down. you wanna get him? go out with him before he is swept off the market

[Lolitha]

You're just nervous or probably not ready to been in a relationship.

You understand it's too young at this age. If i were you, just tell them you're not into relationship at the moment. And as soon as you grow, you'll feel good butterflies and that's when you know you're ready to be in a relationship.

[Daniel]

No No it's ok this is normal. Im a guy and i get shy (that rhymed lol) around women and this is normal because the ones we like the most can be the most difficult to try to get closed to. This is because we are worrying too much about what they are thinking about us and we put ourselves in self doubt. This creates a mental block and we panic and tend to want to run away in the opposite direction. Now you have sent him away and clearly that was not your intention, you obviously want him to come back because you are losing the attention that you wanted in the first place. This is how easy it is. Just go on facebook now and say it like this = SORRY (in capitals) followed by = I do like you it's just i got abit nervous because i dont usually get asked out by someone i have feelings for like what i have for you.

Trust me, say this and get the dice rolling again do it now and good look