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do i stay friends with those 3 classmates in my class :/?
02-18-2013, 02:56 PM
Post: #1
do i stay friends with those 3 classmates in my class :/?
well i've been friends with them so far 2-3 years.. and i always acted nice with them but i hated them so much..they were very mean to me and would talk bad stuff about me in their language..i kinda understood them cuz they taught me some words in their lang before.. anyways i always thought of staying away from them but i don't know how.. we finished (term 1) and we;re gonna start term 2 tomorow so i thought if i won't talk with them and start my friendship with other girls in my class cuz it's a new year and a new term.. but i'm not sure if they are gonna get mad at me..and make me feel uncomfortable in class.. btw 1'm 14 yr old girl Smile..any suggestions on how to deal with them..
by the way i unfollowed them on twitter and unfriended them on fb..so they started to sms me and bbming me why i did that..but i just ignored them.. i'm kinda woried to face them

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02-18-2013, 03:04 PM
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Hey, you need to know that if they treated you like that even though you were nice to them, they weren't really your friends to begin with. No one deserves that kind of treatment, so yes surround yourself with people who'll treat you better. Don't worry about how they'll react to you not talking to them anymore, if they question, be honest and tell them like "I don't like the way you guys treat me, so I'm not going to take this kind of treatment anymore", if they don't like it say oh well and hold your head up high because you'll find better people to hang with : ). Don't settle for people who treat you badly and don't be afraid to face them. If they begin to pick on you, tell an adult, just make sure you remain the kind person you are. Don't let people upset you to where you want to "get even" and be violent with them. It's not worth it and it solves NOTHING. Good luck hun! : )

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02-18-2013, 03:04 PM
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TRY TO AVOID THEM but don't let them feel that u do and take things slowly and trust me if u feel
"annoyed" when u're with them u must do what u feel good about
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02-18-2013, 03:04 PM
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You can not worry about what people think about you, life's too short. If their bullying bugs you that much you should just ignore them and go your own way. You shouldn't have unfriend/unfollowed them them in my opinion. It'll make them notice you're avoiding them and they'll put one and the other together and they'll realize it was because of the bullying. Depending on how they are, they might bully you more because they realized it bugs you and you don't want to be their friend any more, or they might stop bullying you in sake of your friendship. You should just friend them and follow them again and go your own way. Forgive or forget. Regrets are pointless, think about "regrets" as experience.
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02-18-2013, 03:04 PM
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I had this problem to ( Im 14 year old girl ) I had a group of friends and i just didnt fit in well now im with a new group of friends and i love them Wink start by talking to some new friends on facebook and then ask if you can go with them at school and if they agree go with them and if your other " friends " question you on it just say they invited you and you fit in better there , or just say i got invited and i said id would go with them . Dont let them make you feel uneasy , your going to meet plenty of people in your live and if you let them get you down then you will be sad always , so we dont let that happen Smile your new friends will make you forget about your old friends , its weird at first but it gets better alot better Smile x
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02-18-2013, 03:04 PM
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i know how it feels,people pretending to b frnds on ur face bt actually r not,uv done the right thing n tomorrow just behave normally like nothing happend n tell them u r havinng some hacking probs on ur fb n twittter account,dont ignore them on their face so they may create probs for u,try to create distance gradually n slowly
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