Is it possible he just doesn't care?

[anon]

My boyfriend dumped me last week and I'm taking it very hard.

We dated for three months and by the end he said uni was more important to him than anything else. And felt bad for how he'd been treating me.

I'm just wondering because most of his friends say that he's fine and doesn't seem any different. I don't know whether he cares to be honest. When we said goodbye he cried and couldn't hug me because it would have hurt too much for him to let go.

I have him as a friend on Facebook and twitter etc. he seems fine and talks to some of our mutal friends fine.

Does this mean he's over me and doesn't care at all ?

[XoxoX]

why does it matter, you broke up get over it. truth hurts

[Casper]

It is pointless to wonder these things. He dumped you. I know that is hard but it happened, so the sooner you face the reality the better. Because then you can get on with your own life just as he has gotten on with his. Get back to being the cool girl that you are and developing your talents, interests, goals for the future. Fill your life up with things you enjoy instead of moping around thinking these useless thoughts.

[Nada]

He either doesn't care or he's distracting himself with other things to take his mind away from the breakup. Either way I think you should move on and find someone who will make you a priority and treat you how you deserve to be treated. You deserve much better than that.