hey girls a really nice guy needs some help?

[45254]

theres this girl ok? were freinds but not like great friends. we worked a few times together at st. veronicas and shes friends with these 2 other friends of mine shes also close with..we dont hardly ever hangout but when we do its always the four of us..in all onesty i have neevr felt this way about a girl in my life.u know me..im kinda on the quiet side but honest guy i would do anything for one date with her. i know im prob not her type and im prob already in the friend category for her but i would do anything for her..so anyways a couple of weeks i came across an autograph of mac miller..not sure fif u know him but hes some rapper i guess who she loves..honest to god amanda i couldnt walk away and i had to buy it for her..it was $55..i didnt buy it to make her like me i juss got it for her because i knew she liked him and i juss had to buy it i couldnt help it honestly..shes a sweetheart so i kinda thought shed like it..before this the last time i talked to her ws prob last may..so i bought the autograpgh and messaged her over facebook since shes at sonoma st and said in kinda a funny way that i totally found something shed love and left it that for a surprise..she wrote back sayning, "she coulsnt think of what i could be and that it was killing her." so i said id ship it to her place but then replied saying shed be back home for the weekend and wed all hangout...so we did..i gave her the autograph and she was like speechless almost cried lol..it made me feel sooooo friggin good not that i was trying to score points but to know how happy she was when she saw it..she coulnt even believe that i remembered her talking about how she liked this rapper..after she opeend it she was taking pics of it and putting it on facebook and even sent it to her mom over text i think lol and her mom wrote back "where did he get that!"..i really diditnt hink it would blow up like that..after a while my friend brings up her ex bf and her eyes juss are at full attention..so i guess she still kinda likes this guy but i heard he was mean to her so i dont know not any of my business anyways..so anyways shes very happy with the autograph and i m super happy thats shes happy..the next day i go on facebook juss out of boredom and she posts a pic of the cd autograph and writes, "I owe you my life! I still can't believe you found this!"..the other thing to was she does twitter i dont have twitter dont even know how it works but my buddy called me and said she posted this on twitter.."I can't believe (my name) got me an autographed macmiller CD, it literally means the world to me!"..she wrote all of this the very next day..i mean when someone says i owe u my life i know they dont literally mean it..but do u think maybe for once i might have a chance? this is all stupid i know but i have horrible confidence issues and do not think highly of myself what so ever and honestly i really dont expect much out of myself..i mean i dont know but from a girls perspective how would u view what i did for her? juss be brutally honest please [:-)] we really dont hangout a lot so getting this for her was def random and unexpected..i know im not not going to do anything anyways since i dont want to cause any awkwardness and lose her as a friend..i really like her but i could never take that risk and i know shed prob turn me down juss from a girls perspective maybe you could break down this little problem i have

[bectasy2004]

She's your friend and thats it. If you want to keep her in your life, stay friends and nothing else. Its better to have her as friend than nothing at all, right?

[SoccerGirl]

Bro first i gotta say you're a good man. I highly think you have a chance just find the right time to tell her how you truly feel but again be open minded that she don't fall in love with you because you'll buy her al those stuffs. But being friends is better and faith will take it's path from there.

[double R]

I think you are a really nice guy and if she doesn't go on at least one date with you she's kinda mean.
She already really likes you as a person, so just one day by yous two alone just say casually 'hey, i understand if you dont want to but do you want to go [the cinema, iceskating, out with me; whatever] with me' Dont be too intense.
Ifshe says no dont look to sad or offended or heart broken just be like okay then- was worth a try or something like that.
You need to ask her not too soon after the autograph but soon before she gets too friendly with her ex.
Just tell her you really like her but you dont want to make their friendship awkaward.
Good luck hope it works out

[Shriekingpatch307]

Wow, that's a lot of say..well, I think that you guys should still be friends. Even though you do have feelings for her, being friends is not that bad of being. if you want to spend more time with her, call her and ask to go to Starbucks with you or to walk with you. Call her at least once a week and do something new each time. Take it step by step, and in each event you two do, talk about yourselves. Your relationship will grow!