How do you move on from ex friends and rude people from your highschool?

[neontrees.]

I graduated from highschool 2 years ago and I'm in college now. The people I knew from my highschool are nothing but trouble and want to cause problems with me and other people like the are back in highschool. My ex and I broke up because of childish people like this bothering us about our relationship. Me and him are talking about getting back together but I don't want more people to start drama. His ex girlfriend who tried to be friends with me is a very rude person. She called him up today cursing him and his mother out about why he was even dating me and other people. (She's 20 years old).

I had to delete my facebook and change my number many times because of these people. Whenever I run into these people they just want to act like they are back in highschool again.

[Val]

You just simply smile and carry on with your life, showing no importance whatsoever.

[Reeses]

my best advice is to ignore

[vegetarian_kitty]

Your in college now! None of those people matter if they are still stuck on your business they obviously need to get a life. You should move on with yours and just always know that people like that are never successful in life.

[detour]

I think you sound very smart and mature. I think you did very wise moves by deleting them and changing your number. If you hear terrible vicious rumours try your vest to ignore them. I am sure if they get carryed away that courts are set up for law suits for deflamation or giving you paper work to demand that they stay away from you or any of their friends. I would do your best to stay away from them and if that means including police or courts then so be it. It would be best to move out of the area but I imagine that would be difficult. I know some people who get convinced when they are young that over drinking or drugs are the thing to do. When they want to get off the habits they often have to move to get away to stay clean. I hope that your ex is a good person - honest, a good listener and a good communicator and reliable, respectful and non-abusive. I feel you should have these behaviours too to make a good relationship. If so I hope that you get back together. If it seems he listens to his ex and disrespects you I would question if you should waste your energy on him. good luck Val is right I feel that you don't give them any reaction because whether it is negative or positive they or that ex is looking for a reaction from you or him.

[dan]

You need to ingore them, not give out your number to people that are conncted to these people and block them on facebook. These people are extremely immature and you need o stay away. You sound smart and mature these people just have some serious issues they need to work on.